How to not being a naive in dating and being realistic about

>>18525419

none of what you described has to do with being naive or realistic. its okay to blush. its okay to be reserved.

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>>18525419
>blushing and all
awww
tfw no gf

>>18525419
How to not be naive? More experience.

How old are you? What kind of guys are you dating, and where are you meeting them?

>>18525434
Well I meant I'm stuck between being a "girl like" girl or being myself, someone with strong mind and somewhat arrogant.
I've told my whole life to act like a girl, blushing, being shy or keep it to myself with strangers rather than being more free minded.
I was like that before no men really like a girl who knows what she wants or making people follow her will. Or being too independent from men. It's tricky while I can only be one of those polar.

>>18525456
I dated a lot tho I haven't built any experience yet, at least experiencc hone as the guy is gone. I'll be stupid about love again, fast to fall in love with guy, I'm not being clingy though.
I'm 24.
I met them through my friends, my blind date by family and internet.
Oh and some in highschool but I won't mention about teenage sweetheart

>>18525468
How do you manage to fall in love with guys you barely know?

I'm trying to understand your situation. Any other details you feel might be important?

>>18525716
I meant after time of getting to know them if there's any chemistry I'll quick to fall for them.

I can't tell either. I'm stuck between my true self (strong and selfish bitch, a bit cold, can be a little demanding or grumpy) and being a shy, reserved somewhat naive girl.
I don't know if I had DID either because to guys that dominant I'll be more reserved and passive. To guys that somewhat the same page as me I'll lost my interest. So it's basically a circle where I seek for jerks and get hurt by it.
Don't know if the way I am now is to do with my childhood being abused or not.