My girlfriend dumped me and I feel extremely crushed.
What is the best way to focus this newfound time into productive things and start improving myself so I can feel better?
Bump, I'm going through the dame shit you are. By the time night comes I feel useless.
>>18525015
It feels terrible. I think I am dealing with it pretty optimistically, but I cannot take the idea of her with someone else yet.
Anyway, I think that getting productive is way better than start going out with random girls so I can feel "winning".
All the free time in the world man.
Go get physically fit.
Beat thing you can do for yourself.
Bike. Take morning runs. They'll wake you up. It's just a truly great feeling to be a top notch human being.
You're body will feel great and so will your mind. Focus all that negative energy into your work outs/outings.
>>18525165
I am already doing that. i was thinking about studying something, I just don't know what.
Now that you have time- Do something creative. I tried designing a game. Didn't fucking go anywhere, but I have some notebooks of ideas in case I ever need to go back to it.
It's fine to wallow for a while, but don't pinhole yourself. If you don't move yourself forward though some external actions, you'll never improve or feel better.
Writing can be a good technique for finding stuff out 3 A4 pages hand written daily.