Need some tips

Not really, but they will likely continue on without you just fine unless they too are dealing with shit.

Your gf is easy, just dump her and wait for her to move on. She will with relative ease, set her free. You parents though you're probably fucked on. There's very little you can do for good supportive parents to ever turn their back on you that they won't feel crushed losing their child.


I'm in the same boat though. I'm just gonna suffer through it until my parents croak and then there will be officially nothing left in the world that won't at the very least move past my death. My sister will probably take it hard but by then she'll have her own family to focus on so she'll be fine.

It's gonna be hard cause after so many bad relationships she really cares about me and is happy but its better to make her hate me and as for my parents after years of counciling and pills and fighting hopefully i csn finally release them of some stress and they can focus on my little brother he needs them.. thanks for the quick reply

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You don't have to make her hate you or be a dick about breaking up with her btw. That's probably just insult to injury. You just have to break up with her normally, say your lives are going in different directions and you wish her happiness and well, she'll cry about it for a little while, find a new dude and move on.
Then when you kill yourself, she'll probably still be a little upset, but she'll have her new bf to lean on and realize he's what she needs right now anyway.

Thats all I'm saying on that. If you just kill yourself now then she has nobody to help her get through that hard time. She has to deal with both the loss of your relationship and you as a person at the same time.
Will be much easier for her to get past you if she has a new lover to help her through it.