So my long term girlfriend and I are moving back in together after two months apart visiting family. We were in frequent contact and we came up with a little game. Every time she came she tallied up a punishment which I would then execute on our first night together again. Trouble is she scored higher than my creativity can afford. Some punishments I've come up with include having her hands tied behind her back, spitting in her mouth, and fucking her from behind while she sucks on my toes.
Any ideas I can add to spice things up? We're monogamous and she's into all kinds of shit including enema play but I don't know how to bring that into our play since neither of us has ever done it.
>>18524886
Search the Internet - my qt is my lg. We only play dom sub it's not the 24x7 that some are into. I did my research then we created a relationship that is us. I also created a fetish survey that we filled out then shared with each other. It helped give us direction and ideas for things to do in the future. Have fun. Start the covo with here are our safe words. Red = stop | yellow = slow down
>>18525173
I mean we've tried lot of things and I know most of her fetishes and limits and how to play around them comfortably and safely. In fact, she was very averse to having her arms tied up once because she "needs them" to stop me from making her cum too much or she'll "go crazy", but I gently pushed it on her until she learned that she enjoys going crazy.
My real issue stems from how I formatted like a bulleted list of punishments for her to "unlock" whereas most of our play is very organic, evolving from the mood. I just don't know how to add stuff to it.
IE:
>1. Finger her ass up to the second knuckle.
>2. Spit in her mouth.
>3. Pigtails, mascara, and lipstick.
>....
>10. Stepping on her face.
Any ideas?
>>18525270
Nipple claps or cloths pins. My qt needs a good spanking once a week or she turns bratty.
Make her ask permission to cum.
Have her stand in front of you naked - put your hand down close to her pussy the raise 1 finger and say Fuck my finger. While she's humping your finger belittle her. My qt gets off when I call her a filthy slut. Slowly move your hand so that she has to chase your finger to cum.
>>18525319
Fuck. Thanks man. More of this would be great. I'm taking notes.