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So i had a great night during a meetup with some people of a club i joined about a month ago.
During the conversations a girl asked me about my mobile number which i finally noticed after she told me three times already. Am i deaf?
Anyway everybody went home at some point and she started to text me, so continued chatting all night.
She asked me if i want to hang out with her going to a pub/club the following week, so i suggested a place. Even asked me if i would anger a girl by hanging out with her.
Im seriously confused about it, since i never expected it to happen. Being single for 5 years is making me feel like an idiot again.
I dont wanna fuck it up. She seems to have a nice nature. I fear the awkward silence or too many geek topics. Tell me what to talk about if that happens
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She likes you, else she wouldn't have initiated. There aren't "too many" geek topics. You will have to judge your conversation by her reaction. Does she have something to say about your topic, or is she just listening to you talk about your special interest? If the topic generates conversation, keep talking about it. If it feels forced, drop it. Silence is only awkward if you make it that way. It's ok to have gaps and lulls in conversation, you don't need to feel bad about it.
The thing is to stay with the conversation, don't jump backward and forward in time. Take a break every now and again if you feel you need it. Go to the bathroom, the bar, smoke a cigarette, etc. Good luck!
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