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Putting a girl on a pedestal

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How do I stop putting this girl (that I haven't talked to) on a pedestal? A little backstory:

>when I was younger I used to develop huge crushes on girls I hadn't met, but just saw around
>grew out of this phase
>I'm a good looking guy now who is great around girls
>until I started going to this new "nerd" bar
>all the girls love me
>I'm one of the few socially capable guys that go to this bar
>I've never dated a nerdy girl despite being a huge nerd myself
>girl cosplays as Spider-Gwen
>I have this unrelenting crush on her but for some reason can't even muster up the courage to talk to her

Help me. I spent 5 hours last night talking to every single girl besides her. Should I just leave this bar before I get in too deep? I've now built her up so much I probably won't ever talk to her.
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>>18520759
well if youre never going to leave that bar anyways then you have absolutely nothing to lose by talking to her so just do that
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>>18520785
Thread closed that is literally the correct answer!
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>>18520785

I mean I could easily leave the bar forever. It's across town, and the only reasons I go is because it's my roommate's favorite bar and I have a crush on this girl.

I know I have nothing to lose, but I end up freezing up anyways.
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>>18520800
are you kidding me anon fucking look at yourself you handsome son of a bitch, girls love you and you are great around them; she will be no different. build yourself up nigger
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>>18520815

YEAH BUT...

I HAVE NO GOOD EXCUSES

I even drank a bunch, hoping it would loosen me up. Nothing. I ended up with a date, but not with the girl I like.
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>>18520883
you have no good excuses not to just go talk to her you faggot even if you totally sperg out and screw it up at least you tried. trying anything at all is better than doing absolutely nothing.

it is WAY easier once you just say hi and start talking. just fucking say hi, that's the hardest part, and its two letters. just fucking do it
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