Hey normie, how exactly did you get into a relationship. Shit

Went out for a few drinks with friends, got fucked up but not to bad, saw a chick, kissed her without talking, got her phone number, texted the next day, we saw each other more etc.

25 yo formerly kissles, still a virgin here. this is basically how i met my first and current gf.

been seeing this girl in a class i used to attend but never had to balls to speak to her. one day i had an exam with that class, we both happened to give our papers at the same time. then i asked her to have some tea or coffee with me. then added her on normie book. then got her number and asked her out on a date. we went on 4 dates in a month and we kissed on the 4th one. it wasn't as hard as i thought it would be.

never planned anything while talking to her. tried to make it as natural as possible. didn't even ask her to become my gf. we both accepted being a couple on the day we kissed.

i'm not gonna say "be confident". that doesn't mean anything on itself. be confident in who you are and try to show your best sides to her without praising yourself too much.

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>play online game
>start talking with this chick on the game
>she starts telling me about her family issues and shit
>I'm a good listener so whatever
>eventually adds me on FB
>keeps telling me about her issues while I keep being there to listen to her
>eventually confesses her feelings for me
>I don't feel that strongly for her, but never having been in a relationship before, I say yes
And thus began my first relationship. Ended a few ago due to monkey-branching on the bitch's part. If you don't mind going long-distance, just find a girl with some psychological issues online (there are plenty, don't worry) and provide her a shoulder to cry for. I have no clue how to get a girlfriend that's not long-distance though.

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>>18520340
>then i asked her to have some tea or coffee with me.
That's a good move, thanks for the tip.

This is some of things a was looking for, though others experiences I can learn

>>18520384
i just basically asked her about the exam and then said let's have a cup of tea. wasn't really hard.

>On bus showing friend how to get home using transit.
>Ask him out
>He says yeah