Nerves before a wake

>>18517832
Literally tell her that you are here for her, tell her you are sorry and that losing a parent is never easy. Tell her that you are available to her if she needs a shoulder to cry on or to talk, and that you're there for her brother too. Don't be nervous, OP. Death happens in all ways, always. Be supportive and compassionate.

>>18517832
Why the fuck are you going to your ex's mom's funeral? She's your ex. Literally nothing will change. Save yourself the trouble and just don't go.

>>18517832
Get up and give a speech about the mom.

>>18517832
>I just want to show my ex that no matter what, I'm there for her.

Do you feel that way when she's getting plowed by some guy?

Just because she's your ex doesn't mean you have to hate but you shouldn't be hanging around in her life. Just end it already man

I guarantee she won't be thinking straight and it will be a bit chaotic in the wake. A lot of family will be there and probably taking up her time. Just go up to her (maybe bring flowers or whatever for the funeral home) and say you're sorry and you're there if she needs you. Then go to her kid brother and maybe sit down and talk to him if he's free.

>>18517832
Just don't go, unless other family members are.