Asking a girl out

She might just be acting friendly. Perhaps try to flirt with her subtly somehow first and see how she reacts to it.

>>18517726
Be close to each other more. Casually ask her after you've chatted a bit if she wants to get a quick bite to eat after the gym. Keep it simple. If you vibe well outside the gym then you can ask her on a real date.

>>18517726

It's not ok. That's the kind of thing that makes girls avoid guys. So far, she has been friendly, that's all. You need to flirt to know if she wants more.

>inb4 How to flirt?

It's about talking, getting personal, joking about and teasing each other, some light touching, etc. There's no guide.

Ok, but i would like to add that it's usually pretty loud at the gym. There's always music playing so it's hard to flirt/talk.
Not to ention that most of the time we're busy with our own training (not like i know what the fuck i'm doing either way).

>>18517792

That's why you take apportunities totalk to her on the halls or outside if you cross paths. Just don't be a creepo and wait for her. Do it if it's really coincidental, don't force interactions.

>>18517792
Do you have her facebook or number?

>>18517814
no. should i ask for it?
>>18517751
>It's not ok. That's the kind of thing that makes girls avoid guys
could you elaborate on this

>>18517874
>no. should i ask for it?
Definitely, this is best way to know if she is instered on talking to you you outside the gym.

>>18517874
>could you elaborate on this

I have plenty of male friends. I see them on the street or at places, and we talk, hang out, help each other.

If women have to worry about "leading" on a dude just for that, just for interacting, then they stop interacting. The guys that complain about women being rude and sending them away are the ones dealing with the fallout of this.

We can't assume any girl talking to us is into us. It just leads to defesiveness.