Fighting with my girlfriend

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Fighting with my girlfriend 2017-07-13 06:08:34 Post No. 18514037
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Fighting with my girlfriend Anonymous 2017-07-13 06:08:34 Post No. 18514037 [Report]

So this morning, my girlfriend was on the phone with her mom complaining that she'd gotten PTSD from being pushed too hard in competitive sports as a teen. I cringed a bit because my understanding of PTSD almost necessarily excludes the situation she's talking about.

After that call, she started telling me all about it. At one point, I suggested that maybe she could try to address her aversion through exposure. She lit into me, saying I don't know enough, that I'm a late joiner to the situation, and that I'm just acting like her mother and others who hurt her in the past. That hurt me. I rolled over and said "Fine, I don't know what I'm talking about."

Well that did it. She started shouting and crying at me. I just wanted to get away.

Fuck. One day short of a week that I've been here and she's got me ready to leave. I was looking at what it'd cost to fly out today. But I realized that was stupid. She's successful and feminine and treats me nice.

What do I do to apologize properly?

Anonymous 2017-07-13 06:19:59 Post No.18514075
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Anonymous 2017-07-13 06:19:59 Post No.18514075 [Report]

"Hey honey, I'm really sorry about before. I didn't mean to make you upset and I feel really bad."

Then take her out to eat and drink, come home, fuck, go to sleep.

Done.

Anonymous 2017-07-13 06:35:57 Post No.18514113
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Anonymous 2017-07-13 06:35:57 Post No.18514113 [Report]

>>18514037
"What do I do to apologize properly?"
do you want this relationship to end?
Don't apologise and don't be a bitch next time and maybe she wont do this shit to you

Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:12:06 Post No.18514516
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Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:12:06 Post No.18514516 [Report]

Just fight her physically

Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:14:47 Post No.18514523
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Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:14:47 Post No.18514523 [Report]

>>18514037
>Apologize properly

Leave. NOW. If an earnest apology is insufficient in a situation like this, the situation is being used to manipulate you.
>she's successful and feminine and treats me nice
She's more than likely a leech, and this isn't treating you nice.
Letting her do this will set a precedent for emotional abuse.

Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:17:46 Post No.18514532
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That is such bullshit.

Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:27:53 Post No.18514561
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Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:27:53 Post No.18514561 [Report]

>>18514037
>What do I do to apologize properly?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qWRBYRoXu8s

Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:33:20 Post No.18514573
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Anonymous 2017-07-13 09:33:20 Post No.18514573 [Report]

>>18514561
>her voice
>paying for any phsyical damage that you've caused
I'm waiting.

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