Anyone here abstinent?
If so, how long have you been doing it, and why?
I'm 27, and I've been abstinent for 7 years so far. I'm not religious. But, I've chosen to do this because the few sexual experiences I've had were all shitty, and stressful. So, I just decided I don't need more stress in my life.
Same here. I'm 29 and hasn't found the right girl to initiate out with. Just a bunch of hoes. It's hard at times, but you also realize the headache you're avoiding with a shitty woman and it makes it easier.
>>18513765
>but you also realize the headache you're avoiding
I do this a lot. The thing is tho, I'm not looking for girls.
>>18513373
I'm taking a break from sex right now (I realise this isn't really the same) and I'm finding it quite hard.
I want the next person I be with to be my future spouse. I've always wanted that really, but it hasn't worked out and I think I need some time alone to reassess how to find that special someone
>>18513373
23 and abstinent since forever now, but only the last 4 years were on purpose
became religious at that point and decided to wait for marriage, got a girlfriend shortly after, so it's not like I used it as an excuse either
won'tbe for much longer though
>>18513373
Op taking nofap to a different level
>>18513777
well me neither..there are periods where I'll go out of my way to look for women, but more often than not I don't care at all. The cheating, lies, manipulation, time sinks, energy sinks..unless a girl is pushing ahead with me and has a life of her own, I don't even bother. A girl with too much time is a disaster waiting to happen. I could see myself sleeping around, but that's not what I want.
>>18513787
What do you mean
>>18513810
>I could see myself sleeping around
I can't. I don't believe in casual sex. But I also don't thing having a girlfriend would be a good choice for me