Rumors are circling that I have a thing for my boss, and the reason I'm getting favorable treatment and rising so fast is because she has a thing for me. How do I squash this, or deal with it?
I did have a thing for her... She clearly had a thing for me, but nothing happened. She's now married and pregnant. But my feelings are gone. I think hers are too.
>>18508739
I guess I should have added context... I've had a 2x jump in salary since she became my boss, and when she goes on maternity leave, I'm going to take over her role as director, even though I'm junior to a significant chunk of people in the department.
>>18508746
Rumors are true then, nothing you can do about without risking your promotions.
Best to just allow people to think what they think.
actively trying to change people's perception is extremely noticeable.
unless you care what people think you're on the winning end of things. excelling at work, while actually having a thing for the boss in past...kinda makes that rumor 95% true anyways.
>>18508739
let them think what they think and if directly confronted, deny
>>18508739
Smash that preggo pussy boooooooooy.
Be humble and don't get resentful if people treat you badly, a lot of people hate the idea of someone getting ahead for that way and would like to believe it even if it isn't true. The only thing you can do is try and be honest and do your best. Seriously, it's hard to begrudge someone that acknowledges they might not be ready for the position and tries their best. Work a bit overtime for a while -- it's a small price to pay for a doubling of your salary.
In short try to act like the kind of employee that would deserve that kind of treatment.