So ive been dating a girl for years, we broke up for a month or two last year. We continued to talk and eventually hang out. Long story short she told me she wanted to make it work "I didn't do anything did you?" My answer was no and its worth noting she was drunk.
Fast forward to now, she tells me that she did make out with someone I know and drunkily had sex with someone who hates me, claiming she barely remembers.
So the question is should I be mad? We where broken up but when we where getting back together a large factor was that 'she didn't do anything', which she claims she doesn't remember saying.
>>18508124
Anon, do you feel mad? Why are asking us about something you should ask yourself?
It's just sex.
>>18508170
Because Im confused and can rationalize her actions but feel mad at the same time
It's just sex.
I'm fairly certain she hid it in fear of consequences if she was the one that told she wanted to make it work.
Yes, you should be mad. Yes, you deserve better. If it's broken once, it can break again and it's reached a point where the "invulnerable relationship" feeling has gone.