Girlfriend does not like giving head

>>18503844
probably isn't attracted to you.

>>18503929
That's what I was thinking, but what are you basing that on?

>>18503844
Who cares about mouth if you can use her vagoo?

Or is getting oral your main fetish? Why is it so important for you?

>>18503991
I do like it very much. I mean yeah I like the vag too, but I like oral as foreplay, and/or standalone (every now and then)
I can use the vagoo but I always have to initiate and she only seems kinda into it during.

>>18503844
it means you smell like hsit

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HI OP, I'm having the same problem! My girlfriend refuses to give me head. My cock looks great and I have perfect hygiene, so it cannot be related to anything like that. Furthermore sex is very docile, mostly making out and missionary. She doesn't seem to like other positions and won't let me eat her out. When I try to talk about it she says she is too shy to talk about such matters. When I ask her to suck me off she just shakes her head.

> Deal breaker in the long run
> Really makes me question our whole relationship (is that selfish of me?)

WHY?

>>18503844
>Can I change her?
No. You can't mold people into whatever you want them to be against their will.

You either deal with it, or you find someone more sexually compatible. There are plenty of guys on this board who adamantly refuse to go down on a girl, some girls also don't want to suck your dick. Such is life.

>>18503975
im basing that on my own experiences. I refused to give my ex head for a long time, because I just wasn't sexually attracted to him. But with my current bf, I could blow him for hours, he's very manly and overpowering, he doesn't even need to ask.

>>18504091

Sex is pretty important in a relationship and the fact that she's not that into it is probably related to you not being very manly. A girl will do almost anything for the right guy.

>>18503844
I don't know if it's because she's not attracted to you. I would find it a bit absurd that she would be together with you if she wasn't attracted to you.

I think it depends on the girl herself. I for example love giving blowjobs, it's very fun for me and I love to please the man.

However, some women either don't like going through the trouble of getting tired mouth, or they think it's degrading or gross, or they do not focus on your pleasure.

I have a friend and even to men she is attracted to, she does not enjoy giving head because she is more focused on herself. I hope this made sense

>>18503844
Giving head actually requires a lot of work and can quickly make her jaw sore

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>>18503991
>Who cares about mouth
I swear to god there is an epidemic of betas.

>>18503991
>Who cares about mouth

>>18503991
>Who cares about mouth if you can use her vagoo
Who do you think you are?

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>>18504540
>>18504547
>>18504566
Since when having preference is being beta? Fucking her right into vagina without condom > getting sucked

Do you even impregnate your woman?

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>>18504587
Not getting head is just sad.

>>18504587
>being such a virgin that piv is the end all be all of sex

>>18503844
>She doesn't truly love me
This seems like a big conclusion to jump to. Is there anything else that makes you question if she loves you?
>She loves me but isn't that attracted to me
Why would she be with you and be sexual with you in other ways if she wasn't attracted to you?
>She thinks it's demeaning
Has she said this? Have you talked about this with her?
>She's selfish
Also a big conclusion to jump to. Has she done anything else that seems selfish?
>She had a bad experience in the past
Has she said she did? Have you talked about this with her?

Maybe you stink down there. Maybe you've got dick cheese. Maybe she doesn't like giving anyone blowjobs. Maybe her jaw gets tired. Maybe her gag reflex acts up without you having to shove it down her throat.

If you're going down on her just so that you can expect a blowjob, you're doing it wrong.

>>18504281
Fuckin well played lol

>>18504242
>you can't change someone against their will

This has to be the most dumb statement in this thread

She isn't attracted to you, OP.

Stop eating her puss and see how she likes it.

You deserve to have your sexual needs met.

Also basing this on personal experiences.

I don't suck dick unless I feel attracted or love someone.

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>>18505019
I see you're the strong independent woman who don't need no man. Bravo

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>>18505031
>you dare to call me an object

>>18503844
Have you tried to eat her out?
Maybe looking you putting the example it's enough for her to put all her effort into it.

69 could be a good way of force her to do it for longer periods of time.

The gag reflex can be controlled with practice, do you think pornstars just went balls deep with their mouths on their first try? NO, they sucked dick, like fucking crazy, everyday until they mastered it.
Don't try to shove yourself into her, it's better if she do it by herself.

Buy her a dildo to practice on her own? Maybe she is afraid on pukiing on your dick and embarrass herself?

>>18504413
So, is it best to just walk out once she refuses to talk about it? See how she deals with that.

>>18503844
Semi related, but I don't like getting head, I just like fucking. Anyone else the same?

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>>18505758
>So, is it best to just walk out once she refuses to talk about it? See how she deals with that.
>She's selfish

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someone probably fucked her face so hard she threw up then left her

what you can do break her in do even worse, which is a risky move, but you are saying its a deal breaker for you, so go apeshit on her

>mfw you try to skullfuck every bitch and sometimes they are embarrased what ive done to them

>>18505766
I find that most women are really bad at it. Kind of want to get my dick sucked by a gay dude to see what a proper blowjob is like desu.

>>18503844
Time to start dating someone else on the side.

Why would you eat her out if she isn't sucking your dick?
WTF

>>18504670
If you could force people to change there would be a lot less alcoholics and drug addicts running around.

>>18503844
Could it just be that she doesn't like sucking sick. That happens. In which case, just fuck her and be grateful you're getting ass you faggot.

>>18506154
Not everybody has this beta mindset that little is better than nothing, some people can just leave and look for someone who meet their sexual needs, see normie women as an example, they leave their current pathetic boyfriend all the time for someone who can properly fulfill their needs.

>>18506204
>Shit people exist
You don't say

A lot of girls just don't like giving head. It hurts the jaw, can be smelly and there's a lot of pressure. Stop going down on her if it's an issue.

>>18506232
>Bitter virgin thinks that people who leave unfulfilling relationships are shit.
No wonder why you guys can't get a gf.

>>18503844
Get a dildo OP and suck that thing for 10 minutes and tell me if you are comfortable.

>>18503844
Jesus Christ man what the fuck. This situation sucks, but it may well be physiological. Make SURE you're clean as fuck, to the point that you would basically suck yourself. Next, open up to her a little, tell her you're concerned that there's some other reason but that you think it's just in your head because you trust her. If she reinforces her previous statement about a gag reflex then BELIEVE HER. You do not have a reason not to. And if you feel so strongly about this and it is a deal breaker for you, you could either try spicing things up a little (maybe get some soft lined handcuffs with fuzzy pink liner and retain one of her arms to the bed and blindfold her while to play with her and fuck. That's surprisingly hot, believe me

>>18504591
>Tripfaggotry

Not even once

>>18505554
Read the OP next time

I used to date someone like that, here is what I did :
>lick her off until she moans for you
>start whispering to her something like "I want you so bad" etc etc
>starts fingering her>she can't take it anymore
>at this point she's on her back laying with her legs open to you
>just get on her, take your dick and literally put it in her mouth
>enjoy.jpg
>at this point you both are so horny, you can try to do something more like a little dick slap, be gentle at first but you can increase force after she accepts beeing dominated

Hope that helps

>>18506731
>TFW I already try to suck my BF's dick 24/7 and constantly try to pull his pants down and because of it he doesn't get the chance to dominate me and skullfuck me

>>18503844
Quite normal for whatever reason ... I've had girls that loved giving head but wasn't into anal. I've had girls that loved anal but refused to blow me and I've had girls that wanted both ... I, ofc, prefers the latter type but ....

>>18504665
Haha almost got ya, no but srsly i give mad head, want?

>>18503844
Drink pineapple juice then

My girlfriend likes it :)

If she said its becayse her gag reflex she probably threw up on somein before during a bj. She probably wont tell you that because shes ashamed of it and the embarrassment and possibility if it happenining is probably on her mind and freaking her out during bj