How do you get shy people to open up? From an outside non shy

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Keep initiating convos with them until they open up. Talk about topics that interest them.

>>18503491
This. Some people, like autists, aren't confident in their ability to tailor their behavior or "read the room" and just won't open up if they don't think they can carry on the conversation due to lack of interest.

>>18503487
Stab them, they will be too shy to call the police. Patch them up and now you are bros.

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>>18503489
>>18503502
Literally just like my Chinese cartoons

>>18503491
Kk will do

>>18503523
Now you're talking sense Anon.

Devilish.

>>18503527
Do you at least try to talk to them about your own interests? Do you have any?

>>18503569
Duh. That's why I'm talking to them in the first place.

Got faced with that problem recently. I used to be extremely introverted and shy, to a maladive point, and managed to reverse it back to an equilibrium where I'm comfortable and even shinning socially.

Meanwhile I've been knowing people that never got past that though I know they've suffered it.


I guess you can always try the slow approach, treating shy people with babygloves and all but in turn I don't think it's doing them any good

Seriously just bee yurself with shy fucks and if they won't keep up then slow down. But it'll always be up to them to change that, and you have no power over it.

>>18503835
As an actual shy person I agree with this, people will open up at their own pace, if they don't want to then trying to help them will just make them want you to fuck off.

>>18503487
Talk at them, not with them. Never force them in a situation where they feel forced to respond.
Eventually they'll start warming up to you.