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Anxiety about Girl's Past

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/adv/, do girls ever think of previous partners during a new relationship? I ask because there's this girl who's obviously into me (sends me texts like "you're very attractive" and constantly asks to hang out), but I have a huge mental block before I decide to take the next step. And that mental block is all her previous boyfriends/partners. I'm so afraid I won't stack up to them both romantically, sexually, or really in any category. I feel like my mediocre 15cm dick will be nothing to her, just because logically from all the guys I've known she's been with a few will have been bigger and more skilled in bed than me. Or that any experiences we have together will be meaningless to her because she's already gone through so many relationships. The only other girl I've been with was a virgin, so I have no idea how a sexually experienced girl would react to any of this. Or has my mind just been poisoned by the /r9k/ and /pol/ memes about "roasties" and "used goods"?
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>>18502937
1. that shit will rot the relationship, especially the part where you think your dick is too small
2. roasties and used goods are a thing and you should worry about HER and not YOU in that regard
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>>18502937
>she's already gone through so many relationships
Wow OP, she's the damaged goods not you
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>>18502937
Don't listen to those other posters. Just enjoy the relationship, the only thing that can ruin it is your anxiety. Be confident. Each relationship is unique, you're special to her. People can fall in love more than once and it doesn't cheapen it.
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>>18502937
It depends on how many relationships we are talking about and the length of them. Were they long term relationships? If she has more than 3 sexual partners, then yeah beyond that girls have a hard time bonding with a new partner. It's no meme.

I would not do it anyways. You are obviously too insecure about it. Don't do anything that would make you uncomfortable. Find yourself a virgin or a girl with little experience like yourself if that's what makes you feel better.
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Do you stress out about all the stranger's asses that have touched a toilet seat before yoiu use it?
Do yo u recoil from the thought of your food being served on used plates and having to ear with used silverware?
Does the idea of other cars using the roads you use ruin the experience for You?
Have you tried getting the fuck over yourself? Do you think she's worried about all the weird porn you've jacked it to? Do you think she stresses over the fact that you've touched a vagina before? At some point you need to stop being a baby and realize it takes some amount of maturity to trust another human being.
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>>18502937
>>18503201
>Or has my mind just been poisoned by the /r9k/ and /pol/ memes about "roasties" and "used goods"?

Bingo.

It's a common impulse to feel insecure and compare yourself to someone's past partners. If you want to pursue anything with ANY girl you have to get over these insecurities.

You need to have confidence in yourself. The fact is that she wants you now, not them. She isn't with them anymore because they weren't right for her. She believes that you are; so why don't you believe it?

Your only obstacle here is you.
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>>18503201
>>18503219
Thanks, I really needed to hear this
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>>18502937
>this thread again
>betas saying "its in the past dont worry about it!!"
baka

some simp shit if youre gonna be with a hoe
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>>18503260
it's way more """beta""" to be so insecure that you can't date a girl who isn't a virgin.

You're basically saying that you aren't man enough to be compared to her other partners.

It's also an extremely transparent coping mechanism for incels who need to validate themselves and find an acceptable reason for why they can't get any pussy

The fact that it's the ideology of choice on /r9k/ is extremely telling
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>>18502937
lie about it if she asks
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