Random picture.
Anyway, I have an attraction to a girl who has a kid about 4 years old.
I know she has her own place and I have her on facebook from what I've seen there's no man around.
I'm a loser 1st year 22 year old guy she's about 29.
Should I peruse knowing she has a kid? She's beautiful and I want to get to know her.
>>18502766
Nope, you are just an easy target. If you want to pay for child support, go ahead.
Yes, just remember that you are a cucker
>>18502781
>>18502780
If I don't marry and I can leave at any time then why not?
Besides the kid might be my friend when he grows up?
>>18502784
Just don't do it. You are going to fall on her web and when you realize it will be too late.
>If I don't marry and I can leave at any time then why not?
>I'm a loser 1st year 22 year old guy she's about 29.
Just don't.
>>18502784
>Besides the kid might be my friend when he grows up?
She's got a child already
Best case scenario, she might want to get laid a few times
>>18502796
Kid leaves home?
Why is it impossible she could love me?
>>18502809
You're still a kid.
It's not impossible, but since you're asking 4chan for advice, I'm guessing you're not exactly a master seducer. Why do you think she's even interested in anything serious? Or for that matter, if she were, why would she persue a 22 guy? You haven't even talked to her, and you're already picturing yourself having a relationship to her son. I'm a 33yo man, and if I were to date a single mom ever again (date, not just fuck,) I'd make sure not to meet her children for at least four months into dating her. When there are children involved, especially 3-6yo, you need to realize you're actually becoming a part of their lives, affecting their emotions and how they grow up. If things don't work out with the mother, you'll be breaking up with their innocent asses as well.
>>18502766
Goddamn, another desperate for pussy guy. A single mom is the easiest pussy and why she's a single mom.
>>18502766
Pic seems very much related OP. Read over your post again and tell me this is a good idea
>>18502832
What I mean is I'm a university student so it doesn't really seem like I'd make a great dad at the moment.
I can't tell
Anyway I should probably just get to know her better before I decide. I like her and I wouldn't mind dating her long term.
>>18502845
But why her? Why not someone younger, who hasn't had her nipples chewed up?
You're 22 and inexperienced. You call yourself a loser. You should work on those things before you start thinking about settling. It's absurd that you think this is your best chance at a relationship
There's plenty of 22 year old girls who don't have kids that even an autist like you is capable of dating. Don't waste the time and the energy on a single mother.
Her child will ALWAYS take priority over you and there's a myriad of fucked up laws in place to potentially fuck you over if she turns out to be a snake.
If you comfortable with always coming second to her kid, being drained financially (support her and her kid) and mentally/physically then go for it.
>>18502852
No. There's plenty of +30 guys desperate enough (it doesn't take much,) who she would prefer to take advantage of. They know better how to treat a woman. They are better at having full-time jobs. They are better at fucking. They got experience with relationships. They got money saved up. WHY would she want a 22yo for anything other than to get eaten out a few times?
Also, OP doesn't know she hasn't got a man already. Not everyone posts everything about their lifes online.