Should I tell gf about campsite use?

Yeah, tell her. Then give her your debit/credit cards, you dumb fuck. Spending money on pixels, holy shit.

>>18502724
Tell her, relationship should be about honesty. If she's the right girl, she'll appreciate your honesty and you'll gain her trust. And if she won't aprreciate it... do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone with whom you can't be completely honest, who's not your best friend?

My boyfriend told me about some fucked up shit he was doing when we weren't together and which he did again twice during our relationship (not cheating per se, but similar to what you've done). It was awful, I cried, I was mad, but in the end I understood that he wouldn't tell me if he wasn't feeling guilty about it. And that it takes really decent and honest person to admit to wrongdoing just because it's the right thing to do. So I did forgive him and now we have a great relationship. He knows he can confide in me and I know I am with someone who is capable of admitting his own faults and mistakes.

>>18502724
Well, it could have been worse. If she is the one, she will slap your hard, take away your card and feel like dating IDIOT for few weeks, but should withstand it.

>>18502724
No. You should be ashamed of yourself for wasting money on web sluts. You don't need to confess this to the gf though. Venial shit like this doesn't really matter in the long run, and everyone has a secret.

>>18502724
Keep your mouth shut. I understand men feel guilt and need to confess while women do not. Learn from this and don't do it again. If you tell this slight indiscretion she will retaliate with fucking some guy. There is always the possibility she was still fucking someone else for the first few months anyway.

>>18502769

This is probably closest to the mark and sounds a bit like my relationship. We did agree to be completely honest with each other.

The thing is it was more like watching porn than the actual 'connection' I believe a lot of women are fearful of. She couldn't speak English, it wasn't great and she wasn't even as hot as my gf. I finished after 5 minutes and left. Yeah I feel pretty bad because she might see it as something only we should do together.

>>18502806

I am ashamed, I just like the validation that you don't get with porn.

>>18502825

I don't really think that's the case, she's not like that (inb4 all women are deep down)

>>18502844
Whatever you want to believe but I still urge you to keep your mouth shut. Let this be a learning experience and not do it again but zip it.

>>18502844
If you agreed to be completely honest with each other than you have to tell her. You feel guilty already, if you won't tell her now you'll tell her in a month or so and it will be far worse, because then you will be the person who not only did something wrong but also tried to hide it from her. And what if she asks you in a year or so if there is something you didn't tell her about? You will lie again? It's not worth it. Being honest is the best solution, you'll feel good with yourself and you won't have to worry she will find out on her own.
Just tell her everything you wrote here, that you didn't enjoy it, she wasn't attractive, you regret it, you won't do it again, you're sorry and you wanted to tell her because you believe she deserves the truth. She will get angry, you can't avoid it, but it will be worth it when she'll eventually forgive you.

>>18502844
Please be honest with her. You would want honesty from her, right? Don't let your relationship be tainted by lies.

She won't really give a shit I'm sure if you feel bad about it and dared to confess. You're a retard for putting 60 pounds on it. Use this as a sort of signal that you want more seks and she will drain your balls dry to help you with that.

>>18502844
Also why do you feel you need the validation from another woman? You should talk to your girlfriend about this, is she lacking in some way?

>>18502724
Tell her you fell back into a bad habit for a brief moment. Then ask her to fulfill some fetish you have so that you'll focus on the fetish and not the porn. Say something like -- in 2 months can we do this (X) if I stay away fom porn until then.

>>18503008

Yeah if she did the same thing I'd be unhappy about it

>>18503011

I've said to her in the past I want more sex, and every time we meet up we do get each other off. Unfortunately we can only see each other maybe twice a week. We both live with our parents so it can be difficult

>>18503016

I'm not sure. It does feel good when a hot woman makes nice comments towards you, fake as they may be. Maybe it's because I went so long without sex or any validation then I made a real effort to become more attractive and now I'm a bit more accustomed to it. I love my gf, though she prefers romantic kind of sex and right now I just want to fuck all the time. Years of porn use has been difficult to get over, and she's been really good about my e.d. problems and stuff so I do feel I've let her down a bit

>>18503174
You should keep up being honest with her if you see a future with her. Just never do this again okay? You were being selfish and inconsiderate. Talk to her about it, say how ashamed you are, say you will never do it again and MEAN IT. Try to talk to her about different kinds of sex, see if she is open to new stuff. She will be reluctant at first because you have broken trust, but she will appreciate you being honest and you'll get what you want in the end.

Op here. I'm going to tell her. We'll see what happens

>>18503775
Good luck!

>>18503775
>4chan ruining relationships
god I love this site

It's mostly ok. She was upset mainly because she feels like she has to live up to porn standards. She said that I don't compliment her very much during sex which probably contributes to that. I will continue to work on our relationship. Things should be back to normal soon hopefully