How many of you single guys over 22 still want just hookups?

I got my first hookup (had sex before, but always in a relationship) few days before I turned 22. I immediately realised that it's not for me and despite my hopes I can't be emotionally satisfied by sex alone. Now I'm back to being sad and tf when no gf stage.

Rather cuddle than hookup

t. 22 going 23

The older the girl the more of a roastie she is

Ironically Ive been interested in a relationship since the dawn of time but after hooking up with women they seem to want me out of their life. maybe I'm a bad kisser.

Why not both? Pretty dumb question. What we want depends on the girl and the situation.

>>18502473
This

With a high quality woman you obviously want to go for relationship and with not so high quality one you can just fuck them

>men are all the same and just want sex
>I just want a bf that wants to hold hands and cuddle
>l-lets just be friends, you're like a brother to me
>meanwhile fucking Chad raw

Eh

Looking to just hookup after my last two long-term relationships, loves of my life sort of thing both ended up cheating on me.

Fuck feels, focus on the pussy and treat women like objects.

>>18502497
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I've never wanted hookups. I've fantasized about it sure, but I've never wanted that with any level of seriousness. I've had a lot of opportunities as well and I've just never been interested.

don't get me wrong, I've got a massvie sex drive when I'm not like actively pushing those thoughts out of my head so I don't get distracted, but without cuddling and hand holding and all the shit a guy isn't supposed to talk about or his mates call him a fag and give him weird looks even though they all want the same shit, what's the fucking point? just to up my count? just to up my chances of an std? just to up my chances of a kid with someone I don't really like? just to say I did it? just for a moment of pleasure that fucks with my ability to pair bond?

frankly the negatives outweigh the positive of getting off. casual sex has never made sense to me.

>>18502247
I'm a 29 year old very recent ex virgin. I would much prefer to hookup rather than dates/cuddles/etc. The thing is I'm just not relationship material. Nobody that I could see myself loving could ever love me. So, hookups/escorts/prostitutes are going to be my life for the foreseeable future.

>>18502247
I get into hookups just to satisfy my desires for sex and intimacy, but feel a little bit more dead inside each time.

I remember I was talking to a guy once who mentioned he was all about romantic sex until he broke up with his long-term gf. Then he moved to crazy fetishy hookup mode.

I'm in the romantic section (t. 24) but I feel him. Don't think I'd be ready to start that sort of thing again for a while if a bad breakup happened with my gf.

Depends on the girl.

T. 24

I have a highly illegal thing where I'm only comfortable having sex with a woman I'm in a trusting romantic relationship with

>>18502247
I don't like hook ups, would rather have a casual relationship, but no marriage or cohabitation

25

>>18502247
I want anything but i get nothing

>>18502247
22, and I've never wanted hookups. I'm absolutely disgusted by this generation.

33. Never wanted a hookup. Never got anything.

>>18502519
This exactly. That's my fucking boy.

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>>18502247
I can cuddle my dog. And trust it better too. Don't have to worry it's fucking other guys on the side while "taking it slow" with me.

Basically what else are women really good for.

>>18502247
Me. I'm 27 and that's all I want honestly. Ever since I started paying attention to how men and women think and do things, a relationship seems like and unending nightmare where the only loser is me. I'd rather just score pussy and continue my day and life as normal. I have no urge for anything long or of substance. Like Pink Guy said "I only love pussy not the bitch it's attached to"

25, in a relationship. Love hookups.

I'm 22 and never wanted anything but to date. Probably why I'm still a virgin tbqh, only really deemed myself ready to pursue dating recently. Never even tried before.

>>18502325
Hahahah,you're so wrong.
Even an 18 year old youngling had already fucked more guys than a car can hold.

Don't even get me started on the early 20's ilk. The worst ones have tattoos, so you already know how fucked up they got.

>>18502247
There are many people who are married who are longing for hookups, and many people who only get hookups who want steady relationships but fail to get them due to insecurities.

Its therefore very hard to say. You need to make a judgement on a case by case basis.

>>18502247
about to turn 22 want cuddles

Am 22 and have never had sex/a girlfriend

Should I get Tinder or what
I'm nervous to even do that because I have 0 experience with sex/dating/romance, although I have good interpersonal skills

>>18504105
Most of this, except that I recently lost my virginity (to a woman I thought I'd spend my life with who left me and wouldn't explain why I fucking hate girls why did I give up on being a wizard I knew I was never going to have a stable relationship with anyone anyways)
>>18504184
Tbh if you're decent interpersonally you don't really need to know anything about "how to date," just be straight up and admit that you've never done this stuff before and she's gonna have to be patient with you.

>>18502247
Psh. I don't know what I want. So I don't actually do anything.

>>18504184
Tinder's not a horrible idea, but you're not going to be successful for a while. It takes a bit to learn how to date and how to keep a good dating profile going.

>>18502519
yeah yeah we get it, you're a bitch. All the reasons you listed can be very easily prevented if you're not fucking retarded. Face it, you never probably had any chance at one so you keep telling yourself casual sex is pointless and wall it with a bunch of bullshit reasons. If you cant get laid just say so.

>>18503784
I swear if I could show this pic to every bitch who wastes my time...this man was woke as fuck that night.

>>18504584
right now I could be fucking if I texted any one of three women. there would be about zero chance of anything long term though so its just not really something I'm interested in. also two of them would be cheating and I don't want to be a part of that.

also with how I look, I could go to about any bar in this city and get laid. no larp.

>>18504621
tldr; lol fuck off.

24 kv

literally just want sex
do not want to perform a little song and dance for it