GF has been sending me weird signals for some time now (late texts, lazy replies, bored around me), away for a weekend with some friends, just sent me a text saying we need to talk. I'd have to be blind not to see what's coming but how should I deal with it? Dated for half a year, really liked her, folks liked me, etc. It's gonna suck. Thought she might be the one...
How old are you bud?
>>18500685
27, I have some dating history but I'm not great at dating. She's moving out of town (not far, 20min drive) but I think she's been waiting on this for awhile. I'm good at getting girls but they usually figure out how depressed I am and realize I'm not the guy they wanted.
Break up with her first (I'm only half joking). It might shock her into "holy shit he is assertive and not my pet" or something like that. At least hopefully.
But even if it doesn't, at least you're the one who ended it (;
>>18500679
From my experience, these seem like red flags for cheating. Very benign signals, but also pretty tell-tale.
break up with her first and you win
>>18500748
This. My ex pulled the exact same shit on me by claiming that "life was stressing her out lately". Later found out she spent her free time videocalling another guy and left me soon after. Take the initiative and dump her shitty ass before she does.