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For the guys who were in several relationships here.
I guess you can say they start out in three different ways. 1) You are interested in the girl so your pursue her until you end up in a relationship, 2) the girl is interested in you and you give the whole thing a chance or 3) the both of you have a crush on each other and you become a couple, although that doesn't happen too often.
Every relationship I had was the second kind. Am I missing out? Should I actively pursue women who I'm interested in but didn't give me any signals that they are into me? Looking back I've never been rejected before and I remember pursuing one girl back in the day and it worked out, but I haven't tried to get with a girl I am interested in ever since. Maybe I'm just afraid of rejection but I'm not the kind of guy to chase girls.
Am I missing out?
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>>18500354
Yes, you're only driving one way on a two way street. You'll never know what's in the other direction by doing this.
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>>18500354
no I don't think so
pursing women is the main cause of a.) rape and b.) rejection
you're probably better off stick to scenario 1. and 3.
3 is also quite common. sure, one person asks the other on the date, but mutual attraction is often simultaneous and obvious.
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>>18500369
>you're probably better off stick to scenario 1.
Lol why would I? So I waste my time and energy in a relationship where I'm not given as much affection as I need? Granted, I've only been in the first scenario once, but I'm not sure if it develops into a relationship with mutual affection.
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>>18500387
wait I fucked that up. did you read my post? I meant to say scenarios 2 and 3.
men who chase women all the time get rejected all the time and sometimes rape
just peacock a bit, go around single women, and wait for one of them to show interest in you. if they shy away once you initiate with them, find someone else.
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>>18500409
to add to this
I would say maybe ask women on dates once you're marriage material. when someone is fully mature and looking for a spouse, that's a different game entirely.
by then hopefully you'd be a confident guy with a career so when they say, "haha no sorry I'm busy" you can get back to whatever it was you were doing and let it go
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>>18500409
>>18500430
women looking to marry are going to be applying game and being more rational than just some young hos looking to get validation and sexual release
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