We have a great relationship, constantly cuddle, have lots of activities which leave us tired every night, and lately we rarely have sex. Neither her nor me have a desire to do so, even though we find each other attractive and sexy. Maybe it's tiredness? Maybe it's normal? Did anyone else encounter that?
>>18498941
>Neither her nor me have a desire to do so
you sure about that?
dissatisfied women are the most likely to cheat
>>18498947
Dunno, I'm pretty good at satisfying, but she doesn't seem to want it
>>18498941
What's your problem? If you're both happy, be happy.
>>18498947
This
>>18498956
How do you know she doesn't want it?
>>18498947
Because, if she isn't bitching she's about as happy as she's going to get.
>>18498941
that's a good thing, it would only be a bad thing if you had incompatible sex drives and one of you wanted sex more than the other
Is she usually this ok with not having sex?
My friend had a higher sex drive than her boyfriend (who watched a lot of porno and wasn't as interested in sex as a result) and after months and months of complaints she started cheating on him with someone online who would phone sex with her.
I'm sceptical about people who are ok with no consistent sex.
>>18498941
If you're both ok with it and satisfied with the amount of sex you do have, then you have compatible sex drives. That's really the ideal.
That is, assuming that one or both of you doesn't want something different and is just pretending to be ok with the current situation.