I cant make my gf cum Wat do?

Oral sex, fast way to get there

>>18496560
Doesnt work. She just wriggles around like shes in pain

Fuck, try to masturbate her, It seens shit, but you'll begin to understand how to give pleasure, helped for me

>>18496562
cuz she enjoys it?

>>18496554
Foreplay. Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay, followed by foreplay. Don't even think about climbing aboard until you've given her an O or two by hand or mouth.

>>18496574
No i think it just begins to hurt

>>18496575
Ok, but why cant i get her to cum with penis in vagina? This is how its supposed to be right? If i cant do that then ive failed as a man right?

>>18496576
Don't directly lick her clit, just lick all around it, she is clearly way too sensitive there, also learn how to do gspot stimulation with your fingers, while you eat her out.

Im thinking its because im not good enough. The way i am, who i am, the way i look or act just isnt a turn on enough. I imagine that if i was a more attractive better looking, more confident or rich she would cum buckets when fucking her, its that im just shit.

Any femanons want to shed light on this? Did you have a boyfriend where you didnt cum? Did you just need a better guy?

>>18496582
Listen dude, thats not what im interested in, i want us to be orgasming in unison with my penis in her vagina. I want her to cum over me, about me and with me not just because i spent 45 minutes stimulating her gspot like some human dildo

>>18496576
Did you ask her?

Do you ask her what she wants in general?

Or do you just guess?

>>18496592
Yes i have asked her. She never fucking gets to the point. Shes always like "i dunno" maybe this maybe that.

I asked her before if shes ever cumed and she said yes but recently shes denied that she ever has but i think she is just lying because she knows that will somehow make me feel better even though i know she told me she has before so i know shes lying to me which doesnt make me feel better at all

>>18496589
Majority of women don't orgasm from piv, so even if you dump this girl and get a new one you're unlikely to get what you're looking for

You think it's any more fun to have some yob jam his dick in you like a human fleshlight? Pleasure goes both ways.

>>18496576
>No i think it just begins to hurt
You think or she told you?

Maybe i need to work on myself, start going to the gym or something. Im not that bad looking im just a bit on the skinny side. Although the gym has never interested me,

Maybe i need to take a different approach to sex or maybe i just need to fuck someone else.

I can make other girls cum

>>18496580

femanon here: we do not usually cum through penetration. you're not failing as a man; it's just that orgasms for her and the majority of women do not usually work in that fashion. stimulation of the clitoris is the most effective way to make her cum.

sounds like you have some unrealistic notions about her pleasure. try & ask her about what she wants sexually. ask her what gets her off. if she's reluctant to answer, she is either shy or has some sort of psychological issue pertaining to sex &/or intimacy.

>>18496598
Well my first girlfriend did and a few others have. But they probably had lower standards.

My girlfriend is 26 (im 30) and shes quite attractive and has had boyfriends before me that were probably more attractive than me. So shes probably got some standard that im not living up to

>>18496580
>This is how its supposed to be right?
Anatomically speaking, not necessarily.

My last date used to maturate with her fingers while I was pounding her.
I managed to make her cum only with my dick.
Anyway sometimes it took ages. Other days it took minutes.

Anatomically speaking, you never know.
Try to start oral. Get down on her... Keep licking even if you get bored. Try different angles. If she starts shivering or trembling, pin her down until she pushes your head away. That's her "no". If she pushes you away = painful/too sensitive... If she doesn't, keep going until she's totally out of control.

I can't believe you.motherfuckers get pussy and can't even please her while I am always in complicated relationships.

>>18496607
So you are saying that if the guy of your dreams and 2 of his attractive friends fucking gangbanged you in the most hot way possible you would not cum everywhere?

>>18496609
Yeah she pushes away. But then what? Where am i supposed to lick when she pushes away?

>>18496611
anon, i hope you get hit by a car today. i mean that.

>>18496554
Eat da pussy wit precision.

>>18496613
Ok, but do you talk... Right?
Does she say it's too sensitive or does she say it's painful?

The latter is weird... Maybe with lubrication... I dunno.

But if it gets too sensitive... Sometimes it happens. I remember a girl I was dating who could reach arousal very quickly and even short term orgasms... But the problem was she got too sensitive too quickly. You had to be very slow with her so she could reach full orgasm and build up feelings before it got too sensitive to endure.

Weird, but not so much if you think of it. Try super slow then.

How does she pleases you Btw? Does she suck? Does she like spending time with you even if she doesn't come?

>>18496615
Can you show us your tits with a timestamp?

>>18496611
the most hot way possible would be stimulation of the clitoris. penetration is a nice feeling, but if there is no attention given to my clit - it would be very hard to cum, no matter how attractive these people are.

kind of feel bad because this is seen a lot in porn, but it's whatever.

& i'm saying that it's impossible, but rather that it's just a bit more tricky to cum in that way. it may take a while & it requires a bit of trust.

>>18496619
i probably could but i don't think it's what you want to see

>>18496623
*not saying

>>18496623
>bit more tricky
So basically it would take someone who is better than me.

>>18496618
Yes she does suck. Shes very good at it. And she gets wet as fuck. Which is why im just like wtf why dont you cum.

Its like, if i was her i would want to cum, i would make damn sure i was going to cum. I just want to see it happen, like she must touch herself or masturbate when im not there and she probably cums then so why have i never seen it?

>>18496624
I want proofs. I don't need masturbation material. I don't even use porn btw. Cleavage with a timestamp should be ok. If you post with a pw you could even delete it after a while.

Anyway I who is asking tits am not the hit-by-a-car anon. I'm another dude.

>>18496627

no it doesn't. it takes time. try not to bash yourself so much on this. if you're so sure that you've made girls cum before, then why would she be so exceptionally different? just talk to her & ask about her fantasies and what makes her tick. verbalization gets women off.

>>18496633
Try toys then. Like, say, vibrating eggs. Don't get her a monster dildo ffs. Something small and vibrating... 20 $ should do the trick.

>>18496627
>So basically it would take someone who is better than me.
Holy shit do you really like to beat yourself down, don't you? It kinda makes you feel comfy to say: I can't make her cum 'cause I am a clumsy and inept person.

Guess what? That's fucking irrelevant. That's not what I want to hear. Do or do not. Take it as a challenge... Fuck her while she's sitting on a washing machine. Grab her from behind in a gentle yet sensual way while she's cooking dinner... Just be creative ok? Do some light spanking... Use a toy...

P. S.: do you two fuckers do drugs or take pills or medications? Weed is not necessarily good for sex. I feel like informing you of this sad reality. Same goes for alcohol.

>>18496637
Yeah... Ive thought about this, im not very verbal during sex.

>>18496641
Not really, but she says weed makes her horny

>>18496633
Porn and mens ego establish unreal expectations and the pressure applied to women so it can satisfy a mans ego will kill a potential orgasm that would/could happen naturally. That is why some women fake them. The guy won't let us relax and enjoy.

>>18496644
Next time she pushes you away... Go forward, hug her, caress her... And the whisper to her hear: "was it painful or were you just losing control? Shall I keep going?"
As you wait for an answer, you can delicately chew on her earlobe and start focusing on her neck. This should give her time to focus (kek).

Maybe she felt like peeing or something and made you stop. Communication is the key... Yet you can address it without ruining the mood. No need to call the United nations to solve the issue

>>18496654
I second what this lady has to say.
Maybe I am too old school for the newfags on this website, but I remember one day I had sex with a girl and basically we kept tickling each other until exhaustion ensued. We didn't even "cum" in the technical sense, but gosh it's been amazing and we laughed a lot!

>>18496657
Generic bullshit advice

>>18496654
No not porn. My ex girlfriend used to cum, and some other girls

>>18496854
You are an insufferable faggot. The key is communication which you severely lack.

Go back to your fidget spinner, autist.

>>18496872
I want a concrete thing that i can physically do that will cost less than about 3 grand or failing that, someone to actually be like "i was in the same situation this is how i solved it/never solved it and gave up"

>>18496627
>>18496611
Well I was gonna give you a solid tip that's worked for me with no foreplay but you seem to be an insufferable faggot. Stay beta.

>>18496597
She came with a previous boyfriend who knew what he was doing. You need to learn. Don't watch porn: there's nothing there that actually works.

Talk to her during sex. Tell you how much you want her, and what you want to do with her. Specifically, that you miss the taste of her pussy and want her for your dessert.

Go down on her. When your jaw starts getting tired, know that you've barely begun. She seems to have a sensitive clit, so don't lick there. Go lower at first, and tease her labia with your tongue, penetrating maybe a half-inch at most. Circle around the clit. Do the thing everyone talks about: practice writing the alphabet across her pussy—that keeps you from being in any one spot for too long. Don't try to make her cum, just to make her feel good. When she feels good, she'll relax, which will make it easier for her to come later. You'll be down there a while, so patience and time should be on your side.

I know that feel. Why is it so hard for women to get off as fast as a guy? i could finish in a few minutes if o wanted to ... takes every girl i've had sex with at least an hour and i try everything i can.

>>18496881
Dude, start are you expecting, am alchemical formula?

You got your answer in the first few posts, just because you don't like it doesn't make it any less "the answer".

>>18497522
That is what im expecting.

>>18497136
Thank you. Its a problem isnt it

>>18497043
You dont have any solid tip youre lying

>>18497098
Yes its what im thinking. Im not good compared to her previous boyfriend/s. What do i do? Maybe i should dump myself and kms.

>>18497566
Why dump? She obviously loves you, but you can't di this one thing for her, so why not accept that and open up your relationship. Let her get from another man the pleasure you can't give her, with the understanding that you are still her boyfriend. Sex and love are two different things, and you can still love someone who is also having sex with a man who is better at it than you. You can be there with her, hold her hand and look into her eyes as she gets what she needs.

>>18497640
HAHA fucking troll.

Do foreplay OP. When she's all wet and asking for it, just do some more foreplay. That's it, like this wiseman said >>18496575

>>18496586
> Im thinking its because im not good enough. The way i am, who i am, the way i look or act just isnt a turn on enough. I imagine that if i was a more attractive better looking, more confident or rich she would cum buckets when fucking her, its that im just shit.
That's exactly what it is, anon. A stronger, better looking, more successful man would make her toes curl. You can't do that for her, but, if you love her, at least you can be there for her when it happens. Arrange for her to have an encounter with a real man, and stick around to help out with things like fetching towels or filling wine glasses foor them. When the moment comes (cums?), be there for her, hold her hand, stare into her eyes as they fill with gratitude and pleasure, and kiss her gently as he thrusts his way through the first orgasm on his way to giving her ten more. She'll love you for being there for her.
Remember, anon, sex and love are two very different things. Just because you fail at one doesn't mean you can't give her the other.

>>18496608
wew that's some retarded overthinking here, just follow what her body tells you make sure to get here extra aroused before penetration learn how her body works and play with it.

>>18496615
wtf, he isn't wrong most of the pleasure comes from your brain.

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>>18500042
*nerves sending signals TOO your brain