Is getting a hj after a massage cheating?

If the girl isn't your exclusive girlfriend, yes

>>18496305
Only if you initiate.

>>18496305
Sweet baby Jesus, that's awesome. Where could I get one.

Yes.

It doesn't matter what a bunch of strangers on the internet think constitutes cheating, what matters is what you and your partner think constitutes cheating.

But as a rule of thumb try to reverse the roles and put yourself in your partners shoes. How would you feel if your girlfriend got fingered by a dude and came after massage?

>>18496305
>having gf
>paying prostitutes to give you massage and handjobs
Does your gf even do sex?
>inb4 asexual starfish
Find better gf if sex means this much for you or train her.

>>18496305
One of the most enjoyable things on the planet a man can experience is an hour of steam, soapy sponge bath, massage and capped with a hj by a sweet golden touch asian woman but it is cheating if you are in a relationship.

ask your gf about it

>>18496305
No, if your GF it's the one giving you the massage, otherwise, yeah, it's cheating.

>>18496420
I'll probably be wrong like the little sheltered child I am, but it might have been one of those rare occasions where they went in for a simple non-sexual massage but it then turns into a sexual massage.

>>18496550
>i didnt want to cheat you i swear, i was just walking naked, tripped over her body while she was changing panties and my P landed straight into her V and before i knew what was happening, i made her pregnant

Imho even going for massages when you obviously arent injured / tired from actual sport is questionable. And even when she grabs your dick, you can still tell them to fuck off.

Dont excuse cheaters.

>>18496550
you can stop the jerk before it starts you aren't tied down.

>>18496305
Jesus.


Would you be livid if chad gave her just the tip of his cock? Maybe not even his cock. Would you be pissed if your partner did the same thing you're thinking of doing?

>>18496320
there are happy ending spas everywhere dude

>>18496305
No, sex workers don't count, there's no relationship there, just release.

>>18496550
Generally speaking, the places that do sexual services make it quite obvious. You can usually tell a "legit" massage place from a sexy one. If when you walk into the shop, there's a girl wearing red lipstick at one of the counters, you can get a handjob minimum.

If you're not sure, the best way to tell is to strip off completely when you lie down. If they don't cover your ass, you're probably going to be offered extras. If the girl brushes her hand down your crack, gooch and balls during the massage, you're going to be offered extras. If she stands at the head of the bed/table, and leans down over your head, you're going to be offered extras. Sometimes this waits until she asks you to turn over, and you're only asked if you want a happy ending, other times they'll ask you if they can do anything else for you, and then you can ask what's available. Some guys leave the money out on the side to avoid breaking the rhythm, and the girl implicitly accepts whatever amount he's decided on by offering the extras, other times there may be a brief discussion of prices. You can sometimes get head or even full service (penetration). The payment for sexual services is often seperate so that the owner of the joint can disclaim any knowledge.

Which makes me think that OP is slightly bullshitting. I think he knowingly paid for a massage with happy ending, then got remorse. You don't suddenly agree to pay for a handjob you didn't ask for. It can be thrown in, of course, in some places, with the initial payment.

Also, Eurofag here, if some of the women who work there are Eastern Europeans, you're definitely going to be offered extras, because those women are prostitutes who probably have little or no massage skills. This is also true of a lot of the Asian women, to be fair - if you're not sure whether you'll get sexual services or not, but when the massage starts it's really lacklustre, you are definitely going to be offered extras.

>>18496305
Would you be okay with it if your gf went to a spa and some handsome masseuse slipped his hand under her towel and fingered her until she came?

>>18496305
Whores aren't cheating, whores are really expensive porn. If you let yourself jack off, you can let yourself get jacked off by a woman who's not even thinking about the act.

>>18497099
Thanks for the tips, not OP but this experience interests me.

>>18497179
Happy to help.

>>18496305

Enjoy getting arrested. They are more often than not undercover cops.

Don't any of you think things through before thinking: "Lol I can get a HJ from random chicks!" idiots.

I've been getting massages for years. I'm quite fit, have modeled, keep clean, tall etc.

Not once. Has any masseuse tried to fondle my balls or my ass. Not once have they asked "You want a happy ending"

But then again. I don't go to shit holes in hood rat areas.

You want some dirty whore whose jerked off thousands of fat greased up pigs. Go for it.

But if you get arrested when it turns out Chng Chang Lipstick is actually Officer May Land You In Jail. That's on you.

Buy a sex-toy or get a girlfriend or jerk yourself off.

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>>18498011
what a loser lmfao
>watch out it's illegal!

>>18498011
You sound like such a massive and insufferable faggot. Every single thing you said comes off as pretentious and just plain stupid. Also that spacing...

>>18496531
>i, don't understand, commas, the post,