Background: Just moved into a house with my girlfriend, she moved across the country to be together. Went over to our landlord's house to drop off rent about a week ago and had a nice chat with him, he's about 75 and we're in our early twenties.
Today, the landlord called and invited us over to hang out and have a beer a little after lunchtime. He lives alone, and my girlfriend is in a whole new place, and he's our landlord, so I figured it might be a nice idea to put in some face time and hopefully give my girlfriend an opportunity to get out of the house. We got there and sat down in his living room, talked about weather and the town and other random things, and then about fifteen minutes into us being there he asks "do you guys watch porn?" We both said no, really hoping this wasn't going the direction it was, and he continued on by telling us that he has lots of porn and enjoys watching it when he's around by himself. He gets up and grabs a DVD, and puts in one of those ancient porn collections from like 2003. Suddenly, we're drinking Natural Light and watching tranny porn at 2 in the afternoon with our 75 year old landlord.
I have no idea what to do. I'm worried this has put us in a really weird position with someone we owe money to every month. We didn't leave on bad terms or anything, but we did leave pretty quickly, and he did say we should come over again and watch more some time. Fuck.
>>18494790
you say 'no, this is wildly inappropriate and clearly sexual harassment, give us the next month rent free or we will sue you and take the building'.
or just sue him and take the building.
>>18494804
I feel like blackmail isn't exactly the way to go
And sue him for what, exactly? Being a horny old man?
>>18494816
for sexually harassing you two. do you think there is a lawyer in the world who wouldnt take this case? a jury who would not find him guilty of sexually harassing you two?
I would say this guy is probably just so old and out of the loop that hes fucking retarded. Go talk to him, just you and him, and just kind of explain how that was fucking weird and to not do it again. Do it in a more diplomatic way though
>>18494837
I don't really feel like what he did was sexual harassment. Like >>18494839 says, I would very much expect a 75 year old man who has been divorced for a decade or two and lives alone and watches tons of porn to be fairly isolated. When he got around two younger people that didn't immediately chastise him for bringing up porn he probably felt a little more comfortable to open up about his sexuality. Which, while being pretty fucking weird for most people, is not sexual harassment. I don't doubt a lawyer would take the case and a jury would probably convict him, though.