Okay, heres the deal, my life is pretty fucking sweet right now, and mean its not but I have plans that makes whats going on right now worth enduring, anyway what I want advice on his how not to be a fucking retard and get into a relationship with someone, right now I am of clear mind in my room typing this but I know this girl who is very pretty and is also cool, I came pretty close to asking her out today, now I know the likely hood is I'd get rejected but if she accepted and we got into a relationship it could fuck up all my plans for the future and make me miserable in the long run.
So I want advice on how to stop that, how to
not do something dumb when the feeling takes me.