Hey /adv/, 20 year old virgin here. My friends have started using Tinder recently with much luck. I humbly request all of your tips and experiences with dates like this. I'm not ugly, just clueless (once went on a whole date ignoring signs and just talked and then took her home - didnt realize it until later)
Appreciate any help guise.
>>18492883
If you like someone, don't become a "chatbuddy". Ask them out asap, and don't be weird about. When you see a way in, say: "Haha yeah, that [whatever she said] is awesome indeed. Let's grab a beer!" or something like that.
Don't use too many pictures. Make sure the pictures project a varies and active lifestyle. Don't use five slightly different selfies, but go for one selfie, one picture of you doing something fun, one picture of you with a dog or whatever, etc...
>>18492894
I think I got the second part down, theres a selfie, group friend pic, funny childhood pic and a sports pic. As for the first part that is good advice, i cant get beer though so maybe smoke or get coffee or something?
>>18492903
>As for the first part that is good advice, i cant get beer though so maybe smoke or get coffee or something?
Yeah man. Whatever seems like her cup of tea (pun intended). If she looks like she's into art, suggest a museum or whatever. Don't do the smoking thing if you're not sure she's cool with that, although I'm getting the impression that you're from a muslim country with a shishah tradition?
>>18492926
Lol no, california, most people just happen to smoke weed here. Its just as common as all the memes about it
Be really cautious. I went out with a girl from Tinder last week and I'm pretty sure she gave me genital herpes. I'm getting tested tomorrow.
>>18492883
Does Tinder feel dead for anyone else outside of a city? I live like 1hr from a city and I'm pretty decently looking but i N E V E R get any matches. Feels like my shit is bugged
>>18493023
Yikes. Noted. I mostly only go for girls under 20 though, so hopefully the chances are less. Also always would use a condom.
>>18493026
I live in a small town and it doesnt really seem too dead, but i just started.
>>18492883
Met the love of my life on Tinder brah -23 here
don't put much on your bio, they won't even read it 99% of the time.
she's shown me her Tinder and after looking at other guys bio I can tell why she chose me
Just make sure you don't look like a jackass or a fuccboii in your photos and you'll be fine.
Tips:
>If she doesn't have a bio
Start by talking to her about something in the background of her photos
>She doesn't respond at all
DON'T SEND ANOTHER MESSAGE
I literally was playing games[jokes] with my gf on Tinder thinking she was a catfish, after less than an hour we moved onto Snapchat then phone numbers then dates.
Always ask to talk on Snapchat, numbers are for old people/when it's getting serious.
SC gives you both the freedom to say whatever you want