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>Healthy
>Maybe slightly depressed, more just bored because I'm stuck in limbo in my life right now and I recognize this and try to be productive and not self destructive.
So I pick up a chick from the bar with my friend and we go back to my apartment and we are drinking and smoking weed having a good time for the most part. Later in the night she and I sneak away for a bit of fun in bed. We start making out and we find each other undressing ourselves. I can't get it up and I start feeling the pressure and the shame and I'm shooting myself down yet I have her around my finger at this point. I end up just fingering her and making out. I didn't even know what to say I was so embarrassed. I just made excuses that the weed and the alcohol were to much (it might of been but chalking it up to that doesn't seem wise to me). She leaves in the morning and doesn't call me back which is a whatever at this point.
She was a little bit older but still cute so I just don't know what the issue was but I sure as fuck don't want that to happen again. Maybe I was just moving to fast and let it get to me. Didn't even remember her name in the morning fast.
Any advice from anons who have had a bad experience in bed? Should I just get some knock off viagra as a back up before I have that memory crawl back into bed with me and destroy my confidence?
HALP!
>>18491126
I'm thinking... be rested when you plan to fuck, most dudes work then go right after to a party and at 2-3 o'clock when about to fuck they are too exhausted.
Go to the gym to build some stamina but be rested, stay hydrated so you got JUICE!
If nothing works as an urologist.
>>18491126
Sure, it can help take you mind off things. I know it's hard to do but you must not think about it. I had mental ED when I first started and then again when I started using condoms. You need to be comfortable and in the moment. Once you start worrying it only gets worse. Maybe a little alcohol might also help you relax.
>>18491154
I'm afraid of not being relaxed and when sex comes along you don't always get to choose. That was my moment and I dropped the ball and I had a couple beers so we were both sauced up pretty good, though I find I have a better time without the beer because I feel like I'm more sensitive physically that way and it feels more pleasurable. The weed did not help that's for sure because my friend was being a dick head at 2 in the morning and the paranoia side started to kick in. Stopped smoking weed now just because of that incident.