>be shut in most of my life >waste away behind my PC playing

Try new things?
Ask her what she likes and try to do it.
Me and my gf got into biking after i taught her how to ride one.

>>18491040

You mean when hanging out at home or when hanging out in general? "Anything special" is very vague. Anyhow, it could be anything. With my bf we usually do a lot of stuff like wall climbing, playing pool, going hiking or other activity shit like that. But if you mean at home, then games (yes, even those silly kids' board games can be super fun with your SO, but chess or cards, whatever), movies, TV shows, building something together (like ikea furniture or handcrafts type stuff), cooking weird dishes together, etc. Anything works, because everything tends to be more fun together. And lots of sex in between, so doing stuff takes longer and you'll never be bored.

>>18491040
>>What do?
Do some stuff together: cook, coop with your gaymes etc.
FUCK/try some freaky shit, drink some good wine so you 2 apes don't look at each other like who did what.

>>18491040
I dunno I'm a khv and always worried about the same thing happening eventually.

Maybe you should try to include her into video games that has a lot of fan fiction/content like Overwatch or something.

Or try some new stuff entirely like >>18491043 said. Even if you both dislike it, bonding over things you hate is a legitimate way to grow closer to someone.