This guy in my class opened up to me about perving and taking creepshots of women. I had a phase of doing that years ago. Should I tell him my story of doing it to convince him to stop like I did? He seems trustworthy, but I only slightly know him.
>>18490492
it would probably help because eventually hes gonna get caught
>>18490496
Or he tells everyone in class
>>18490492
No, he's a cop.
>>18490492
> He seems trustworthy
Famous last words.
>>18490496
He already did, but she didn't do anything to him or sure him. Yet.
Don't do it. It's a pointless risk. You used to do something depraved, but you've grown and changed. This guy could harm your reputation, and you telling him won't make him any more likely to change. In fact, learning that somebody else he knows has done it all with just help him rationalize it as normal.
Just tell him in a serious, but compassionate way (going off on him for being a sicko will just make him close himself off from anything else you say) why it's bad, and what the consequences are.
Maybe make up some story of a friend having shots taken of her, and how it disturbed her. This will force him to at least consider other people's boundaries.
>>18490492
Dont do it and make fun of him at any possible opportunity to forget your own sins
You can tell him your story, but say it's a story about a friend so it doesn't come back to bite you in the ass.
>>18490492
tell him but don't insist, I need those pics when I jack it on /b/
>>18490850
Will probably do this instead of saying I did too avoid anything going wrong.