So for the past half year I have been going clubbin once a week looking to hook up with a chick, with no success. Everytime I get somewhere some bullshit happens and all my efforts are wasted.
I am fed up with going to the club, waste of time and waste of money. Where should I look to find girls to hook up.
I am 21, 186cm, fit and about 7,5/10.
I know how to talk to girls, I am confident and have humor. But I am fed up and want to try something new.
I am not a big fan of Online Dating
Does anyone have good advice, thanks
Yeah try picking up women elsewhere.
Work on your game so that you can pick up any type of woman you want in any setting they happen to be in.
Learn by failing. Keep on improving yourself. Plenty of fish in the sea.
Do you mean same-night lays? If so, I can offer no help… Even though it is a common enough experience that it certainly isn't an anomaly, I still can't get myself to believe that it's possible for a dude to meet a girl and convince her to go home with him that night.
As for just getting numbers and dates… I'm good at that, but you probably already are, too.
>>18490423
Networking:
a friend of a friend of a friend of a friend knows a girl
>>18490423
you're boxing your self in. first and foremost if a year at the clubs yields no results, the problem isn't the club, its you. you are approaching the wrong kind of girls most likely. your stats are probably exaggerated.
im 5'6" , 120 pounds and look like a 15 year old gay boy, but its hard NOT to get laid when i go to a club.
chances are you are aiming for girls out of your league.
unfortunately there is no other place where girls go just to 'hook up' outside of bars and clubs, so if you want to hook up you'll have to just approach any girl you see that tickles your fancy and hope they are in the mood.
>>18490423
i know how you feel anon
i went clubbing and i thought i found a really amazing girl but it went downhill and she unfriended me from fb lol like others said meet others elsewhere maybe university library? i dont know