Angry at the world and hopeless

>>18487640
>a series of really bad things happen to you nonstop, what can you
Stop looking at yourself a special snowflake, you're just another person and shit happens all the time.
Stop looking at the world as: ME ME ME MY MINE.

You seem to hang around bad places and then you do the victim act. FUCK OFF! I'm a grown man and wouldn't hang around bars.

If you got robbed go to the police if they changed office go to the next regional office and file again, if you have to.

>>18487751
No one goes to the bar expecting to get raped. And it was the first time I went to the bar in a year. I don't hang around bad crowds, I don't do drugs, and I just recently graduated university. My post isn't me saying that I think I'm a special snowflake and that the universe has something against me, I know that's not true. I'm just asking for help on how to not feel hopeless when things do.

And I don't want to play victim either but it's hard not to. It's not like I'm asking to get raped.

>>18487830
>No one goes to the bar expecting to get raped.

You shouldn't go to a bar unless you are desperate or a whore, how about that, especially if you don't have solid friends with you and not some vapid whores?
>help
1.Get a job and get away from the social circle that apparently never had any connection with your disaster story.
2.Focus on getting your own place and be independent financially and don't tell people "it wasn't my fault, I'm a good girl" nobody cares in reality, unless they are your parents desu.

And if you go to a place thinking you're not suppose to be raped, think again and get precautions.(watch your drink and... google the rest)
People are very opportunistic and if you hurt about the rape go to some self defense classes, it might boost your confidence.

>>18487855
I have my own place and I am financially independent. I'm a software engineer. I already cut off my old social circle.

I don't think it's true that only whores or desperate people go to bars. I clearly wasn't going to hook up.

get a doggo as a friend, learn self defense to prevent rape. Also the exercise helps with depression and stress.

>>18487640
There are a lot of shitty people in the world.

There are also a lot of not-shitty people.

When you're drugged and fucking someone, onlookers -- even ones who are friends -- can't really tell if this is involuntary or if you're just felt like being trashy and fucking in public. I really hope you reported this to the police though.

I think you're making an assumption that shitty people are leading happy lives. The punishment for being a shitty person is that you're a shitty person, and you have to live with that. You're assuming they're happy because no cosmic retribution has hit them, but you don't know.

I think you need to accept that you have really poor judgment in people. You don't need to have a paranoid level of defensiveness, but you should have a healthy skepticism until you get to know someone better, and in terms of finances, you should insist on documentation and monetary transactions that are recorded in some way.

For what it's worth, have a virtual, non-ulterior-motive hug. I hope things get better for you.

>>18487855
>>18487751
I want /r9k/ to leave.