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Im losing in life.exe

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Im just wondering, what have i done with my life?

Ive never been popular in schools (maybe in highschool, but i dont think it was "good popularity"), ive had few friends, wich i mainly lost through years, i wasnt really good with boy-girl connections, so my experience with girls sucks. Also im not really good looking (Im not a monster, just im not so handsome), so it was really pain in the ass.

I've secretly crushed in one girl in my class in highschool, she was crushed in me also... but i fucked up, and missed my oportunity. After highschool ive asked her out, she told me she will not, because now she know me.
>Depression knocks to the door.

After highschool i had one girlfriend, but after some time she was more to me like a friend for life... she cheated on me... ive broke up with her. Later we meet few times, just to talk.

>Now

Im 27, 8 years after that second girl, i didint met any girl, that liked me. Ive tried online dating... ive send around 300-400 messages, 97% of this messages was without any respond... just viewed.

What have i done to myself, that i fucked up in life so bad... Any advices?

(Yeah, im newfag here... Hi...)
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>>18487541
Post screenshot of your dating profile. Tried others like okcupid and badoo? Tried going to social events you hate? What job? Do you hang out with your coworkers?

Where do you live? Why are you constantly in your basement? Are you fat? 0 confidence?

Try reading this.
>>18483444

And post your dating profile.
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>>18487541
Stop questioning your past. If you think about the past you will live in the past. Learn from your past instead of indulging in it. If you don't, 20 years will go by and you'll be doing the same shit. Think about the future.
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OP here, photo and text from dating site i will post in hour or so.

Im living in shithole called poland, so there is only one big dating site.

I am car mechanic with my brother.
We have own workshop. No co-oworkers.

Im not really basement type. I am just nerd. I am doing some go outs. For car shows and stuff like that. I am pretty sociable.

About my confidence. I will ratÄ™ it 6/10 but i am pretty shy. About weight... 115kg for 191cm (6'2 foots)

About thinking. Nowadays im thinking more about future... But i am not so positive about it.
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>>18487541
>doesn't talk about college
You're ugly just get a broken ugly fat girl and be happy, watch porn get rock hard and fuck your pig wife, it's the best you'll get.
And keep a day job if you still have some pride in you.
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^up
Being lonely compared to your advice seems like good plan.
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>>18487577

About my profile. (Mostly translated in google translate)

"I am a tall dark haired man, I deal with old cars every day, which is also my passion. I am intelligent, humorous (also black humour :) ), and I have a lot of general knowledge, so you can not complain about the lack of topics to talk about.

My passion is automotive, computer graphics, and music (mostly 60's - 90's). In my spare time I devote myself to passions, or I'm walking around watching beautiful scenery, going for a ride in the area, or spending time at home watching some good movies.

I am a rather cheerful and honest man, who occasionally likes a little spontaneity and improvisation :) "
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>>18487846
You expect to get girls while you dont even know the basics of taking care of yourself? Get a haircut and go fix your beard.
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>>18487992
Well you are probably right mate. We will see after that.
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>>18487846
Jezus.

New haircut, no beard, take selfie outside with sunlight and better background.

Maybe you are a little fat? The bio sounds lame, but nobody reads it anyway. Go hunt ladies to social events you hate.
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>>18488116
With no beard ive got new level of ugliness, so i will just trim it.
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>>18488151
I disagree.
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>>18487541
Try going to college... and forgetting high-school as though it defines you.
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>>18488226
Going to college for me is stupid idea, because i now earn same money as i will got after college.
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>>18487846
Tbh, you sound like a nice guy in your profile. The thing is though, the more good looking the girl is, the higher her expectations usually are. It's fair, and that's life. What I am saying is that with that profile you should be able to get an okay looking shy girl. Whether that's a bad thing or not - up to you to decide.
What kind of girl are you looking for? What kind of girls do you usually message?
Also, where are you from?
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>>18488272
Im from Poland (sadly), i was thinking about moving to usa (ny), but i have a lot of stuff going on here in my life, so i need to finish everything here, to move on.

Im not looking for 10/10 (But i would not complain), mostly im focused for good personality, with humour and cute smile. desu.

Well, mostly i contact girls that have more in description than "i am who i am", and blonde empty plastic dolls. Mostly shy looking dark haired 5/10-8/10 (but in my scale it is 7/10-10/10, because i have strange taste in beauty).
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(To be honest) changed to desu... ummm ok.
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>>18487846

Here's a little online dating profile coaching from someone who has never done online dating and doesn't want to: Be more vague, seem like less of a loser, get a haircut and shave, and put a few better pictures of yourself.

You say you like to walk through nature, but a photo of you hiking through gorgeous mountains or fields would be better than your current picture. If you can put multiple pictures, then show your passions - girls like men that are focussed and driven (maybe a picture of you with your prized possession/car?). And perhaps finally just a casual picture of you and how you like to relax (Alcohol? Movies? smoking? idk - up to you. Just show some personality). Your picture should tell a story. It's not about how you look - it's about who you are. Conversely, your profile should not describe how you look, but rather what you believe in. Keep it vague. keep it mysterious, keep them curious.

Keep sending messages but try Tinder first, and don't be discouraged - you are probably more attractive than me under all that hair, and if I can get girls - anyone can get girls.
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>>18488342

Honestly that is the best advice ive got today.

Thank you.
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