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I kinda hate my boyfriend, but i dont want to leave him because he is unstable and I don't want him to do anything stupid. what do?
when we started dating he was so happy and so fun to hang out with but he has started drinking and being constantly sad and depressed and its just annoying. 1 of my relationships has ended this way. the other guy was also constantly depressed and just toxic, wanted to kill himself and eventually i just left. is it me? help.
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>>18485766
You aren't responsible for his poor decisions. Don't let them weigh on you. If he does something stupid, that's his personal responsibility, not yours.
Dump him and let him deal with his problems. They are his, not yours.
If you date a string of simikar losers, maybe you're attracted to the type. Some women are attracted to depressed, pained loners. Try dating someone who seems happy and well-adjusted.
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>>18485776
thats the thing. they are always really fun when we start dating but eventually they turn out the same.
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>>18485766
Demand that he gets help or you will walk, give him a reason to improve himself.
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Have you tried communicating with him about this?
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>>18485784
I agree. It always happens to me too.
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>>18486112
Not OP but mine always claims he's going to get his shit together but never actually does anything about it. Its not that easy.
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>>18485766
How long have you been dating?
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>>18486174
Hence the ultimatum aspect, if he doesn't deliver leave him until he does. He needs a reason to improve.
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