After an amazing nine months, come mid-August, my girlfriend's leaving for Florida. Come the end of October, I'm leaving for the Navy.
I don't want to think our relationship is just another tale of young love--there's so much I want to do and experience with this girl. Even if we don't break up come our seperation, it won't be another 4-5 months till we'll see each other again; and with every passing day, I can't help but get more and more anxious.
"Will we last?"
"Will she meet someone else?"
"Will she give up on me?"
My head's filled with these questions, and I can't muster the panacea. Don't even know if one exists. Any /adv/ice?
What rate?
>>18486073
Nuke.
Why don't you talk to her...?
>>18486368
We have. It's just that there's not much to say. We're both aware, and we're both scared.
>>18485653
>"Will we last?"
Statistically, not likely.
>"Will she meet someone else?"
Yes.
>"Will she give up on me?"
Statistically, very likely.
This is life. Some times good relationships end. Some times bad ones drag on much longer than they should.
Seriously, break up now. I know you don't want to, but your lives are going different directions. If shit some how clicks into place down the road and you two get together again, great. But right now, both of you should respect the relationship enough to allow it to end on good terms. Trying to hold on is most likely going to end up causing both of you much more harm in the long run, and ruin any chance of things working out in the future.
Don't be one of those people that tries holding on so tight to something good that you strangle it to death.