How to not be a heartless cunt?

Try to think like this
- He's the last person on earth so you will appreciate his presence.
- He's the one who stood and said his feeling when others hurt your feeling. So u will grateful for his love.
- U r the example of someone who got hurt so much it doesn't matter if you hurt someone back just by not caring bout their existence. So will you love him enough to change it so that u won't hurt him and turn him into exactly like you in the future .
Think like that and see if his image in your mind change ?

>>18485565
>How to overcome my issues?
If I were you, I would try to identify said "issues" clearer and more concretely.

>>18485680
Thank you, this is could be very effective. Will try that.

>>18485701
True. I have been working on that for a while now. I mostly have problems with guys wanting sex too much (I find that repulsive), always expecting them to leave anyway, a bit of an inferiority/superiority complex (it alternates) and being a push-over. There are more I am sure, still trying to pinpoint them though.

>>18485565
You should fuck a bunch of kissless virgin betas to build up your confidence.

>>18485565

Therapy. You have some serious interpersonal and abandonment issues that won't go away with positive thinking and a "can do" attitude.

>>18485840
>I mostly have problems with guys wanting sex too much
Nobody should have to beg to get serviced in a sexually monogamous relationship. Men are especially easy to service, too. Women are more complicated to service, and rarely express their full desires. Try to consider that your partner is only a person trying to have a decent time in a universe that science says is slowly decaying into a uniform state of nothingness.

>Always expecting them to leave anyway
In pop psychology, people always blame fears of abandonment on the person who is afraid of being abandoned. The truth is, your fear of being abandoned by your partner might be very valid. Some relationships are set up to last for a very long time, and others are set up to eventually fail. What kind of relationship you are getting involved in is up to you.

>A bit of an inferiority/superiority complex
This is more pop psychology. Does it mean anything?

>There are more things wrong, I'm sure.
Maybe the answer isn't so complicated. You posted a pepe. Maybe you're just feeling lonely.

>>18485850
>therapy
Yea pay for some glorified pair of ears about your stuff and get some everyday advice from it.
You are better of speaking with your pafents or friends.

>>18485840
Good luck OP. Stay strong.

>>18485840
Try and remember, men rarely get what they want out of life and/or relationships.

You don't have to feel pressured to have sex all the time. Guys should feel super extremely lucky if they get any at all.