So lately I've met and gotten close to this woman I work with. She's very kind, genuinely appreciative, and very reasonable. We often have deep emotional conversations about our pasts and give insight to each other for the future.
The thing is, she can be really mean. We'll constantly gossip about co-workers to each other and other co-workers. We've both been recently working on destroying this relationship of these two in our workplace who we hate. It's not just to others though. She'll belittle me in front of her friends and our co-workers, nicknamed me girly things. If I fuck up somehow, she's there to make sure I know I did.
Not only with words but her facial expressions, tone of voice, body language. Never violent though, she doesn't strike things or punch walls/people.
She apologises for snapping after she does, and is always justified in getting angry. So I can't and never take it personally. I think she just wants to better me. She enjoys my company and wants to have me around and I love being around her.
Is it weird that I enjoy being bullied by this girl? How do I let her know that I appreciate her cruelty?
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>Is it weird that I enjoy being bullied by this girl?
not at all, people have all sorts of ways of expressing attraction, some people instinctively tease.
>How do I let her know that I appreciate her cruelty?
make a move and tell her you want to take the relationship to the next level. The fact that you two get along already with that sort of relationship is indicator enough to her that you like the way she treats you.