ive been engaged to my fiance almost a year. we keep letting

>>18484994
It sounds like both of you are stressing over making sure the wedding is "perfect. I get it, I'm 6 months into wedding planning with my own fiance, there is an absurd amount of pressure from family, friends, and the industry on how to plan your wedding the "correct way". One of my coworkers did the Vegas wedding and she said it was a blast. As long as you go into it with the attitude of "fuck it, let's do this" I say go for it.
If it helps, there was a piece of advice my rabbi gave for when we're planning our wedding; the event isn't a change of your own life status, it's a signal to your friends and family that the love you have is now official. Do what you guys feel is best, it's your day. Good luck and congrats.

>>18484994
Reminder that 50% of marriages fail and that you should make a marriage contract.

>>18485008
>>18485008
yeah man she's super laid back. we're a little older too so the pressure of full traditional is out the window. PLUS we've already lived together for 3 years and just bought a house. we move in on the 27th this month.

I think it'd be nice to walk into our new home as married folks!

thanks for your input;

a lot of what i've heard is the same.

people who go off and do it; had a blast.

I also heard big weddings = too much going on to enjoy the day.

thanks for your input

>>18485011
btw she's the money maker :P

>>18485011
Calling a divorce a "failure" is just being inflammatory. It's just becoming more and more acceptable to divorce in this say and age. A divorce is a good thing, it's two people realising their not meant to be together and legally separating.

>>18485016
>btw she's the money maker :P
Okay then don't make a marriage contract

>>18485017
>Calling a divorce a "failure" is just being inflammatory
Oh no, I was being inflammatory

>married
>not doing the paper work

Dude if you want to get 'married' go ahead. Just know if you want any legalality to it, you need to do some paperwork

>>18485025

I don't understand completely.

All I know is people can get married at the drop of a hat in Vegas.

are there contracts I need up front?

>>18485028
It's based on state laws, Vegas is just very casual about it. If you're seriously gonna go for the Vegas wedding do reseasrch beforehand so you know what you need to get squared away before heading out.

>>18485032
wtf do you have anything WORTH posting? or are you just a fish out of water bumping this thread??

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>>18485028
Lol. If you want it to be legal, you usually need a marriage license, which you both need to be present to apply for

>>18484994
> she picked out a nice wedding band and we put a deposit down but it's just sitting at the diamond store
Huh. Usually the band is just plain gold; the engagement ring is the one with the diamond. The former is usually much cheaper than the latter.

>>18485049
>>18485049
yeah her band has diamonds on it. >>18485037
how the crap do i get one, gonna look it up

>>18485037
okay so it's $60 for one.

ez pz.