OP has started noticing his selfish tendancies. It makes me question a lot of my past motives and rationale.
I'm left a bit hollow. As if to not be sure of myself and realised my actions in the past would have been manipulated by my selfish agendas.
When I google being selfish it mainly comes up with results as to how to avoid these people.
I want to better myself. After recently parting with my long term partner I feel I was selfish in that relationship.
It's an uncomfortable feeling discovering all these personal character flaws. I'm on my 20s now and wanting to fast track my self development.
Has anyone else come to the realisation of character flaws? How did you deal with it?
Feeling down and could use some motivation
The first thing I would do is apologize to this partner if your actions have wronged them. After that I would try to find opportunity to commit kind selfless acts that take time or effort in order to help others. To this enough and you will start to notice change.