so I just found out that my gf of quite some time was having an affair, I started getting suspicious a while back but wrote it off as paranoia because it was my first relationship
turned out my salary was the thing that kept her by my side
dropped her and cut contact, changed locks etc.
the fuck do I do now, even getting this far was hard, and I dont usually fall for the same shit, so im having second thoughts about even starting a new relationship
>>18484780
Protip: If you're into her for her looks, she's into you for your money. That has been "the deal" since the dawn of civilization.
If you want a relationship rooted in trust and emotional intimacy, you have to be looking for a girl that you connect with on the level of personality & values. Someone who you can talk to easily, someone you can see as a real friend.
Enjoy yourself anon, you just dumped a total cunt. No need to think about a new relationship yet. Just have some fun.
>>18484814
nah, im out for good, not falling for this shit again