Want to lose virginity but...

Even when there are girls who show interest in you and are physically attracted to you, as a guy you will still have to do some chasing and put effort into getting laid. Most girls don't want to feel like sluts and just throw themselves at a guy, even if they want to have sex with them. So you have to take the initiative and flirt with them, escalating this until the point you are finally having sex.

>but hearing from female friends the amount of shit they get from guys
That doesn't matter what they say. Being sexually aggressive is what gets you laid. It's just that they are talking about pushy experiences with guys they weren't attracted to. If you are actually sociable then you will meet girls from time to time who show interest in you and they will give you signals to let you know. Be flirty with those girls all you want, because you will be the guy they actually want attention from and in that case you won't be one of "those guys" your female friends were talking about.

>making excuses
You sound like a pussy, grow some balls or give up

>>18484181
>i want to get laid
>post sob story about being too beta to go for the pussy
You don't want to get laid

>>18484294
Anon's here, it really doesn't matter what chicks say. They say they're not attracted to an aggressive guy, but I bet your female always go for that kind of guy.

Besides you can pursue girls without being pushy. Like Anon said escalate, but if you seem going too far, relax don't take it personally and start at the last thing that was working. Then escalate again from there, don't rush.