Too many women, how to choose?

i'd go after B. easier to setup dates, unless you're really fine with a long-distance relationship. they're really hard.

>>18482753
take your time with B. girl A sounds kind of toxic honestly. but don't do the same thing you did with girl a and drag it on for 11 months, that ruins a relationship

>>18482773
Well the idea is that she (Girl A) will be moving in with me in the near future. Like within the next month or two. She wants to get out of her house due to not getting along with her parents (yes I know what that implies, and no I 100% guarantee you it doesn't apply in this situation).

A is basically DTF allready, B might be but I get the feeling they'd rather go at a semi-normal pace despite how obvious it is to me they're trying to bag me and how open they've been about their sex life.

>>18482819
>don't do the same thing you did with girl a and drag it on for 11 months
Its a long story, dont feel like going indepth. basically there was like a four-ish month pause shortly after I met her that we didn't talk which I'm counting. only recently did we move into a point one would consider a relationship. We're not dating, although we freely talk to each other like we are on occasion. Given the circumstances I dont see any issue with timing and they haven't said or implied anything in that line of thought either. Even if 11 moths was too long there's nothing either of us could have done to make it shorter given our positions in life.

I really do like A, a lot. I dont want to be a dick and just go "lol, nevermind" after talking to her for a few months like this. Its just that I kinda came to terms with the idea that she might be fucking someone else before realizing I'm likely very wrong. and shortly after that seemingly pointless coming to terms that I had, I met B.

>>18482859
I believe in you man. just do what makes you feel the best.

B seems like she cares about you a lot, I don't know any details about your situation but you should at least consider her, especially if you think A might have found someone else

>>18482943
Like I said, whenever I talk to B I get a rush of excitement down in my core. That "stomach butterfly" feeling. I haven't really felt like this since the first time A reciprocated, or when me and my ex both discovered we fell in love with each other at the same moment. I know that if we did hook up it would probably feel like my first date all over again (in a good way). She seems like a great person and if A wasn't in the picture I'd jump on that in a heartbeat.

But the problem is that I care for A as well. She's a pretty shit place right now and although half of me wanting to hook up with her is because she's hot as fuck, the other half wants to help take care of her. You can call me a "fedora-tipping nice guy" if you'd like, but thems the facts.

Answer is B.
No doubt about it.
You will have a small fling and lose B forever if you go with A.