My father lost his wife of 30 years, custody of his daughter, and around $50000 in a divorce last year. He kept the house, but me and him are the only ones left in it. He's strong willed, but I can tell that losing the family that he's worked so hard for has taken a toll on him. I will be moving out some time before the end of this year and want to make it as painless as possible for him. Any advice? He'll be stuck in the house that used to hold everyone he cared about, completely empty, and I'm worried what that will do to him. Also he has to work 60 hour weeks to singlehandedly pay the bills now.
I was going to suggest a puppy to keep him active, but 60 hour work week wouldn't be good for a dog with no one else to help take care of it.
I say move out but come back to visit on the weekends
>>18482048
I don't think there is anything particularly you can do to make it more painless, other than talking to him.
> Also he has to work 60 hour weeks to singlehandedly pay the bills now.
He has to work more now? Why? Something about the divorce agreements...?
Your dad should sell the house and get him a bachelor pad, son.
>>18482048
Visit him at least once a month if you live close by. Call him every other day.
>>18482170
This. He doesn't need a house for five people anymore. If he sells the house and buys something smaller, he'll have some left over from the house sales for savings and he won't have to work 60 hours a week.
>>18482170
>>18482193
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being alone in an empty house feels much worse in a big one, since it feels "emptier"
>>18482139
My mother contributed a decent amount towards paying the bills as well, which haven't gone down a whole lot.
>>18482170
He should, but he's spent thousands of hours building and renovating the house (he's a woodworker) . Leaving it will be hard.
>>18482183
Good idea