can't form relationships

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hey all not some basement dwelling nerd or something. successful with job held in high professional esteem. but relationships are different story. I find the club scene uncomfortable and basically do a threat assessment every time I go i to one. part my prevoius life experiences and the job make me look at things through scope of ugly side of life. I honestly expect social manipulation or something to occur. in all honesty have the time I seem to accept the thought I will be alone and others times I cant stand it as I just want to be like everyone else and not a intelligence type. I came here baisally asking how do I open up how do I relax