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In February of this year my girlfriend of 2 years and I had a mutual breakup. The relationship was long distance (5 hour train journey) so we only saw each other every few months for a week or so.
The breakup occurred because we both became very busy and I feel as if she was losing interest. A couple of months later she wanted to get back together but I said no because I felt like the relationship wouldn't last and there was no point.
Now I really want her back, we don't speak often. Maybe one short conversation every couple months. I have her on all social media but don't know if she's moved on yet.
Is it too late to try and get her back and how can I do it?
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You won't know until you ask her. She seemed to want to make it work once before maybe she will again. So long as she's not interests in anyone else I don't see why not. Just ask her my dude.
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>>18481202
My worry is that she'll see how out of the blue it is. I feel like I should slowly wiggle back into her life first but I'm worried starting conversation will make her think I'm a desperate loser.
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>>18481203
If I where you I'd message her out of the blue and just be like "hey I've been thinking a lot about what we used to have and I miss it, would you like to meet up irl at some point for a chat?"
Take her out for a drink and just have a chat about your relationship and see if she'd be interested in trying to make it work again. I would advise talking about this in real life as opposed to over a message.
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My sister broke up with her boyfriend and temporarily got a new one for a while. She then realised she actually liked the first boyfriend more and now she's back with him again. I personally think he deserves better than my sister but it goes to show that people are willing to get back together after you've broken up. Even if you've been with other people during that breakup.
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OP here. Just looking through conversations I've had with her recently she couldn't seem more uninterested. I think I should cut her off completely so I can get over her asap. It's been 6 months it's just embarrassing myself at this point.
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You're just feeling lonely.
Don't embarass yourself and lose your dignity by calling her ever again
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