Advice on one night stands. Im an assburger 27 year old who's

If you plan to return to the area soon, then consider that you have the opportunity for ready available pussy on a plate.

>>18479870
go back and give her the D; clock up a bit more mileage with someone who's actually nice, and who unironically wants it from *you*.

figure out the rest later. if you're wandering aimlessly, you may as well aim for the nearest available and willing poucci.

just my cynical (but wll-meaning) 2 cents.

>>18479870
meh, I go for positive win-win... just always be busy, randomly ask her out for a coffee.. keep it brief.. bounce again.. you could do this for months.. and get laid all along.. think: Friends with Benefits.

Always always always better to tell them then keep texting them. Just by keeping loose contact is absolutely leading her on no matter what.

And dont make it about her but about you. Something along the lines of i am not interested in a long term relationship, or i prefer to keep things casual. Rather than i dont want to have sex with you for reasons x y z.

And there is some food for thought about having sex with a girl twice to alleviate the idea that she may get about being ugly naked or bad at sex. But again dont sacrifice your own desires to make her feel better, but do let her down easy.

I would go for the soft rejection. "I had an amazing night, but unfortunately I'll only be staying limited time and have a pretty busy schedule so it's not going to work out". Something like that then wish her the best.

It's not really fair but within society there's this huge deal about how any sane straight man would wade through a sea of shit to get the chance to stick it in a woman who is not deformed or morbidly obese. Regardless of how kind you are with rejecting her, you are going to make her feel less than shit if she is essentially telling you to come over and plow her no strings attached, and you tell her thanks but no thanks.

>>18479870
DO IT

get laid idiot