my nice, attractive male friend seems to have feelings for me. he's also 8 years older. he's remarkably not a douchebag, which i appreciate, and seems to genuinely care about me. i know guys are pigs and all want the youngest, hottest piece of ass, etc but this seems like a genuine grey area. what else should i know? i'm in my late 20s so it's harder for him to be a manipulative, abusive creep, or so i'd like to think.
you should consider yourself lucky that any man still wants you in your late 20's. there's probably something wrong with him