Virgin definition

bump please respond I'm losing my mind over this

>>18477301
If you are a heterosexual guy, your dick has to go fully in the pussy and then you have to have a penetrative sexual intercourse

>>18477301
What the fuck of course not

>>18477330
why does it have to be fully? I'm 7 inches and if what you're saying is true then if I go 6 inches I'm still a virgin. if I go 6.5 I'm still a virgin
plus the Wikipedia article never specified going balls deep. my girlfriend enjoyed herself and wanted to do it again (I just need to wait for the period to be over )

Officially, you remain a virgin until you penetrate her vagina with your unsheathed penis, slowly increasing depth until your hips meet hers and no penis is visible outside the vagina, and you ejaculate deep inside her. A condom or other barrier vitiates your attempt at losing your virginity, but birth control pills do not.

>>18477353
where is this official source from???

you know what screw it. No I'm not afraid of pussy. I JUST HAVE A BENT DOWN BROKEN PENIS THAT WONT LET ME GO FULLY INSIDE HER AND MY ASSHOLE OF A DOCTOR DOESN'T WANT TO FIX IT.

you know what I hope I get cancer and die soon. my birthday is in a week and I don't want to be considered a 19 year old virgin by ANYONE just because I went halfway in. society hates virgins and I'm not about to let society screw me over again.

>>18477368
There is no official source you retard. That's just how the majority of society will define a sexual encounter resulting in virginity for a guy.

Nobody gives a fuck that you're a cripple-dick, you asked, got the answer and now you can fuck off.

>>18477368
If your girl doesn't get you fully erect and hard, you need to understand that it isn't your fault. There is literally nothing wrong with your penis: your girl just isn't doing her part. Watch some porn together with her and point out the things that she should be doing to improve her performance in bed. Men often underestimate how important communication is in a relationship and how eager women are to get tips on how to become the best lovers they can be. That's the entire business model for Cosmo.

>>18477378
It's not true, sometimes girls are stellar but their partners are nervously spergs who fapped too many times to traps and fart-fetish porn and fucked up their cocks and sexual intuition for good

However if the girl really is shit then communicate with her and pray to god she'll improve her bed skills

>>18477301
A quick skim over the thread tells me that everyone, including the guy in pic related, is bullshitting you because you're being retarded, and your problem is not the formal definition of a virgin (which doesn't really exist in any form) but rather the fact that you care way too much if people think of you as a "real man who is not a virgin"

>>18477378
my problem is that when erect it tends to point downwards. at that moment she did get me hard (although yes the fetishes stuff online hot me harder quicker). that day I was on day 7 of no fap.
>>18477377
society will care if I'm still a virgin (despite me being in pussy)
>>18477386
my only problem is that I need to get her wet before penetrating

>>18477407
>society will care
Society will notice and care if you act like a virgin. If you don't, they won't even bother asking

>>18477407
> when erect it tends to point downwards
Flip her over and take her from behind ("doggystyle"). Your cock is shaped perfectly for that. As an added bonus, you will penetrate her deeply, and she'll love feeling your balls slap against her clit.

>>18477407
>society will care

Only because you act like a rabid spergocuck of a virgin. You are probably one of these guys who can fuck dozens of girls and still give off a vibe of a gross and hopeless virgin. A lost case

>>18477301
Don't worry

>>18477423
I tried that once but it seems that either we weren't angled properly or she can't get wet in that position. that's why I did missionary .any doggy style tips?
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>>18477416
go ahead call me pathetic but i need validation so I can live comfortable. if I'm not pleasing society I feel like I'm not allowed to be happy and enjoy life
>>18477402
well ever since I was a kid shows I'd watch like American Dad made me think virgins were trash. visiting r9k and /v/ didn't help either. my father lost it when he was 13 and got molested by a lady when he was only FOUR. he had slept with lots of women

>>18477510
Eat her to orgasm first. She'll be plenty wet and willing to try any positiom you like.
A surprising number of women really want to be spanked when being taken from behind. Start with a light, playful smack. She'll tell you if she wants more.
Try pulling her hair to bring her head up for a kiss while you're taking her. Also try holding her wrists behind her.

>>18477556
what about angling? I'd post my dick to give you an idea of my predicament but this is a blue board

are any of you virgins? have you gotten at least the tip of your dick in a girl

the person who posted that is totally, completely, idiotic and should not have friends or procreate.

>>18477723
Agreed

He's a sad loser with a shitty dick desu. Won't even make a cute trap

>>18477301
Who gives a fuck? Insecure faggots like you. If your dick went in that's that.

Honestly I didn't know how insecure guys are about this, it's not attractive and you should be glad this is an anonymous board because you're coming off as an insecure bitch. No one wants to fuck an insecure bitch.

>>18477586
A firm pillow under her hips can help with the angle. Or, just go for it on the edge of the bed, her lying prostrate and you on your feet.

>>18477723
I'm pretty sure the guy in the op pic posted that because he's a virgin

>>18477353
Now this is the next level of quality shitposting.

>>18477402
This.

The concept of virginity only applies to women, but if you are unable to seduce a woman, you are a failure of a man

>>18478757
well at least I'm not a failure. WY has make virginity become more important to society in recent decades anyway?

>>18478929
why has male*

>>18478929
>>18478933
It hasn't. You don't wear a scarlet V until you manage to ejaculate into a fertile woman's womb. Nobody knows you are a virgin unless you act like an autistic, insecure manlet.

You only lose your virginity if you go bareback into her pussy and cum into her when you are balls deep. The balls must touch the pussy during the entire duration of the jizzing or it doesn't count. Trust me, I'm a sex expert.

>>18479116
Confirmation of the official definition of virginity given in >18477353

so I need to cum in her? what if I can't or don't even if I'm balls deep? that's still virgin?

>>18479108
>scarlet v
Huh?

im not sure if this thread is serious? if your penis has entered a vagina then you aren't a virgin (regardless of condom or if you came in her)

This is the second thread this retard OP has made. Sage and no more responses for him.

>>18479772
>he thinks /adv/ is a place of entertainment and different posts
apparently it's wrong to ask for advice on a board labeled advice. it's not spam.

God do I hope the sane thing happens to you when you're in a crisis

>>18477301
virgin faggot afraid of pussy detected

>>18477301
HA!

>>18479900
I get it now. I'm not supposed to worry about what others think so if me and my girlfriend sat we aren't virgins then we aren't virgins. it is our life and not society's my mind had trouble grasping that since I'm a social retard

>>18479615
>if your penis has entered a vagina then you aren't a virgin (regardless of condom or if you came in her)
No, that's not right. You do have to ejaculate inside her vagina in order no longer to be considered a virgin. Also, you have to do so without a condom. The safest way of doing so without causing her a pregnancy or an STD is to follow her natural cycles and have sex only on the safe days leading up to her menstruation. People have used this method since the dawn of time, so it's quite safe.

>>18479831

Except this is not a "crisis", this guy is literally freaking out about whether he's a virgin or not because he put "pens in vagina" but didn't go all the way in. He's a class A idiot.

Eat shit

Virginity in general is a worthless concept. It is supposed to me the difference between being sexually experienced and not being sexually experienced. You can get pretty damn sexually experienced without climaxing in a vagina or even without penetration itself.

To the people ITT saying it only "counts" if you match all twenty criteria or whatever, then virginity can't be a bench mark anymore for who has had and who hasn't had sex so it becomes a non-label anyway.

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>>18480738
>sperging out at an admitted sperg is somehow the smart thing to do
truly you are the smartest, GREATEST man on 4chan
no really if it bothers you that much just ignore and hide the thread like a sane human being rather than stooping to the sake level of autism that you say you hate. autist.
>>18480745
>>18480505
these two posts show that virginity as a concept is subjective, since there is no proof or credentials to back up either

http://www.steadyhealth.com/topics/did-i-lose-my-virginity-if-his-penis-didnt-go-all-the-way-in it just gets more confusing. I hate human sexuality and everything it stands for now.

>>18479571
You know, like V for Virgin? Like how the scarlet A is for Adulterer in The Scarlet Letter?

lel

>>18481185

Nope, fuck you again, if I think something is retarded I'm going to call it retarded, and that's a valid point of view. If you want to coddle people like OP that's your life but don't tell me what to post on an anonymous laotian soup fermentation forum you silly sausage.

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>>18483324
by that logic I have a right to call you retarded too. retard.

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>>18483610

Congratulations and welcome to 4chan.

If you have received an orgasm from or given one to someone else, you're not a virgin

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>>18480745
No, it's not worthless at all, but as previously mentioned, it's a concept that only applies to women

>>18484038
does sexual activity refer to penetrative intercourse or any genital stimulation by a partner?

>>18484050
They're both sexual activity, but I'm gonna guess that the latter is less damaging than the former.

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Literally no one cares, you pretty much got laid.

Does it count as losing your virginity if you don't ejaculate?
Is putting your penis in and thrusting once enough to count as losing virginity?

>>18484282
No. Officially, you must ejaculate in the vagina at maximum depth and not wearring a condom. That's the official definition. Now, if you're worried about STDs, you should only try to lose your virginity to a girl who is less than 10 days from having her next period: her body during that time produces special antibodies that suppress diseases.

>>18484366

Devil's doubles speaks only truth

>>18484366
you know what, I don't give a fuck anymore. I don't care if I'm a.virhin to you people or not. because you just said you need to take off a condom to not be a virgin and you need to cum. that shit leads to pregnancy. fuck virginity logic. I don't need people's validation anymore.

VIRGIN AND PROUD

>>18485641
women are only vulnerable to conception for a couple of days in their menstrual cycle
haven't you heard of couples that say they're trying to have a baby, and have been doing so for months? There's so many different factors that all have to line up for pregnancy to actually happen

>>18485994
This. Women have been successfully cheating on their boyfriends/husbands/mates ever since pair bonding was invented, and they did so by carefully timing their affairs to avoid the fertile days of their menstrual cycle. It has always worked perfectly; it was the original birth control. Big pharma wants you to think that condoms or pills are the only way to prevent pregnancy, so they keep the rhythm method from being taught to young girls.

>>18486357
>>18485994
if by your definition people who have condom sex are virgins, I honestly don't see any point in listening to other people when it comes to sex anymore. if you think I'm a virgin fir going part way so be it. at least me and my girlfriend had fun. hell she told me not to stress like an autist earlier. sex I'd supposed to be for you and the person you like (or are extremely attracted to you), not for other people.
I appreciate your input but discrediting those who use condoms is ridiculous. I may still count as a virgin to some, but I know those who fuck with protection definitely aren't virgins.

>>18487273
Woah, there, spergboy, nobody's trying to take away your joy here. You have your subjective definition of what virginity means to you, and that's good enough that you and your gf are willing to settle for it. We're just telling you what the objective definition from all the textbooks is and what other girls are going to expect from you. That information might come in handy some day, so we offer it in a spirit of helpfulness. For now, though, be thankful for the gf you have and her understanding. Show her how thankful you are, anon: take her somewhere nice for dinner tonight. You don't have to explain why: just tell her you were reflecting on your relationship and realized what an incredible woman she is to you.

>>18487307
you know, you might be right. it's funny I was thinking of taking her to Naruto Ramen for her birthday this month