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I figure 4chan is as good a place to ask this as any: How has heavy introversion affected your relationship, /adv/?
I love her so much, but whenever I'm by myself I find myself so relieved to have my alone time. I enjoy being with her, but sometimes it feels like such a burden on my soul for someone to be around... Once she's gone it feels like like I'm free to do so much. She's super-extroverted and gets that I need my time, but I have no fucking idea how I'm going to ever get this with kids around and such in the future.
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Just find someone who's right for you. An ideal partner won't exhaust you. You're young, keep looking. I'm this way too and it's wonderful to have someone who I can just sit in silence with and feel at ease for hours. Kids might not be for you. That's okay.
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Basically realised I'll have to compromise if I want it to work. It's not fair on someone to hold them back because you're reclusive, need to come out my shell and support them.
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Are you guys starting as a couple? Maybe you just need time and see how you two develop, maybe is simpler than you thought
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Thank you for the advice, guys.
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I wouldn't say starting, we're going on two years. But it's my first real relationship and we haven't moved in together yet.
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