Not attracted to gf after anal

>still worked up about some random sex act you had a week ago
lmfao. ur a retard. dump that girl already, she doesnt deserve to waste her time with a faggot like you.

>>18476509
More like a girl that's willing to do anything for you but it's aight you don't really seem to be ready for a real relationship anyways

>>18476509
>cooze
what?

also I've never understood anal but I think you might be being a bit dramatic. though I've never fucked a woman up the ass so I couldn't say for sure. don't think I ever would either. like any time anal is shown in porn, or someone mentions it, or anything, all I think is, "for what purpose? there's a perfectly good vagina right there. now you have to wash your dick really well and its still likely to stink like shit. and the sheets are done for. like look at that vagina like an inch away, aaand you went for the asshole? like why?"

>>18476509
Doin' it in the butt made ya gay, anon. Sorry, no more vag for you.

>>18476516
Found the rat-faced virgin.

>>18476509
This happened to me before. Wait it out. Your lack of libido towards her will likely vanish after a few more weeks. Abstain from masturbation and porn as well if you aren't already doing so.

>>18476509
>get high
>use gfs high to move her towards giving asspussy to you
>fuck her in the ass
>enjoy fucking her in the ass
>get disgusted by the fact that your gf has trusted you to fuck her in the ass and think less of her due to your own actions

Yeah, honestly? As a female I would probably end the relationship right there if you would have told me that my "gift of trust" for you makes me look like a skank in a relationship even though you wanted and enjoyed it.

There's probably some madonna-whore thing going on in your head which will trash every sexual relationship if you don't work on it.

>>18476509
I get it OP. Its nearly impossible to see your gf or wife as respectable when you know she'll take a dick anywhere and likely with anyone. There are whores and there are housewives. Pick one and live your life or make enough money to have a wife and a piece of side ass.

Ask her to fuck you in the ass with a strapon. Then you will realize you won't see her as lesser than you.

>>18477251
>anywhere and likely with anyone

Dude, they are in a relationship and it obviously happened at home while both where high and OP probably asked for it. What happened to the idea that your wife is your personal whore while being the perfect housewife for anyone else?

"In psychoanalytic literature, a Madonna–whore complex is the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship.[1] First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence,[2] this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).[3] Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love."[4] Clinical psychologist Uwe Hartmann, writing in 2009, stated that the complex "is still highly prevalent in today's patients".[3]"

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Madonna%E2%80%93whore_complex

>>18477266
Not him but
>wikipedia
>FREUD
LMAO gtfo roastie

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>>18477415
>haha, it's absolutely natural to not be able to enjoy a healthy sexual relationship with my wife due to my inner complexes, stupid roastie lmao

Yeah, I'm a roastie which is an innie in a LTR because my man cherrishes my sexuality and houswifery as my superior.

>>18477432
>All this projection because you know you're filth
All I laughed at was you quoting Freud, which invalidates your opinion but since you're a roastie why would know better
>Freud
>housewifery
>posts on 4chan
HAHAHAHAHA

>>18476509
As a 40-y.o. male, let me tell you that you are simply wrong. She did that for you, because she trusts and loves you enough to submit to you. You need to get over your autistic purity obsession and learn to take the pleasure that she wants to give you.

>>18477459
>All I laughed at was you quoting Freud, which invalidates your opinion but since you're a roastie why would know better

So you laugh at a aknowledged psychological disorder not due to any given couter-arguments but because I quoted a lay souce for a quick explanation and because inverted argumentum ad verecundiam?

Well, "roastie" seems indeed your strongest argument.

>HAHAHAHAHA
Back to /r9k/ you go, little boi.

>>18476509
> I know this is hypocritical and stupid

So... why the thread again?

>>18477528
>Freud
>claims to be a good housewife while being the kind of woman who posts on 4chan
Disgusting really. It's a good thing you found a sucker to keep you since I'm sure you were useless in school

>>18477568
>claims to be a good housewife while being the kind of woman who posts on 4chan
Birds of a feather. But how should you know. Loving your role as a housewife, doesn't mean you have to be too retarded to know how to use the internet or that you can't enjoy the nigger banter on /pol/.

Get real kiddo. OP obviously has a problem with his sexuality. Thing above matches his points 1:1. Bring arguments or go home.

>>18477588
The women who post here are trash, it's like women in the military.
You're a joke of a housewife and I feel sorry for any children unfortunate enough to call you mother

>>18476509
You should have already conducted you own whore test OP. Mine never fails, knowing even the sweetest girl is really a whore at heart. I suggest a threesome MMF. Some jump at it, some act hurt or angry (so I drop it) but they all come around. 6 gf's have been given the test and all 6 failed. From a 2 month relationship to a 2 year relationship it doesn't matter they all want to do it and they all have a guy in mind already. I switch off my feelings for them, go through with the threesome and dump them afterwards.

>>18477593
>the women who have the same humour and intersts as their husbands are trash
>t. 4/10 NEET jerking of to trannies

Argue the Madonna-Whore-Complex I've posted or leave instead making a joke out of yourself.

>>18476509
Come on OP, you know she had already given that ass to her dealer for weed.

>>18477600
>6 gf's have been given the test and all 6 failed.
Ever thought about that maybe the thought that you want is as bad as to keep asking them? Just saying. If my better half keeps "asking" if we can do x, after a couple times I give in because I thing I would make him happy with it. It's womens nature to please the man with which they are together.

>>18477600
So basically you apply shit tests as an excuse to see dicks? Cuck

>>18477612
I understand your question but I only suggest once. Some have agreed before I finish the sentence and some others have taken up to 3 months before THEY bring it up. Those are the mind fuckers because I begin to think I have a keeper but am disappointed in the end.

>>18477615
No idiot.

>>18477621
>>18477621
The fact that you bring it up makes them think you want it too anyway. Which you do, sincd you go through with it. You're a closeted cuck, to ashamed of yourself to face your choice.

>>18477623
>is a cuck in denial
>I'm the idiot for pointing it out

>>18477621
>I begin to think I have a keeper but am disappointed in the end.
Yeah, well. Blame modern society for telling women they can have it all and that getting made air tight is a sign of being a strong independant womyn. They get raised shitty from young age, so it's no wonder they behave like that in later years.

Just taking the lead and making clear what you want (showing your dominance) might help to prevent them from getting such ideas. I mean, if you can't find the perfect one, you can still try to train one.

>>18477636
naw, anon they come from the factory preprogramed and you cannot retrain.

>>18477645
Maybe because you bitchtamer skill is low.
Try increasing your charisma.

OP it wasn't actually you who fucked her. If it was you, then you wouldn't be upset. What happened was you got stoned and she invited Tyrone over and took in some big black cock in her ass----but you were so stoned, you couldn't tell whether it was you or Tyrone fucking her, so now you're left with this strange sense of disease.

Your reaction is like that of a man seeing someone else fuck their girl----no person on the planet would react this way when they themselves fucked their girl, surely. Unless they are some sort of total subhuman, half-retard idiot.

>>18477251
You can't make a housewife out of a whore but you can make a whore out of a housewife.

>>18477600
My god, you've managed to cuck yourself. I didn't even think that was possible.

>>18477908
I did by making the suggestion and did not stop the girls but when they said they wanted to I emotionally detached and considered the relationship done. When they got the dicking I immediately broke up with them. They all want to fuck other men and all I do is expose them sooner rather than later. Their response during or after the break up has been anger, shame and disbelief but not one seemed sorry.

>>18477937
You've ended six relationships by getting another man to fuck your girl in front of you. Justify that all you want, but it is a pattern of your behavior, not the women's.
The chances of something going wrong in a relationship are not trivial, but the chance of the same thing going wrong in six different relationships is astronomically low unless the same element present in all six relationships (that is: you) is culpable. Those women might well have remained faithful to you if you seemed to want that, but you pushed them into cucking you. They only wanted what you wanted, because they wanted to please you and indulging your sick cuckold fetish was all they could do to satisfy you. Then you dumped them.

You need to take an objective look at your behaviors—not your fantasies or justifications or supposed motivations, but the shit you actually did. Six times you persuaded a girl to cuck you, and six times you dumped her. Dude, you don't WANT a relationship: you want to be hurt, because the pain makes you feel justified.

this is why the white man was so against weed, he was right, it does lead to anal sex.

>>18478129
Oh my god you must have a female therapist and regurgitating what she told you. Nowhere did I say I pushed any of them to do this for me and at worst it was suggested during playful sexual banter. Like, have you ever had a threesome or though about one or bet you like another dick inside you. Some immediately jumped at the suggestion and it was clear had already been thought through. Those that had a negative reaction I never said another word until they brought the subject up, sometimes days later and in one case 3 months later. In every one of these the girl had been thinking this through and had a suggestion for the male participant they wanted to fuck. Pretending this is not what, in my case every woman, wants is insane.

>>18478191
You're completely delusional and it shows. You should go to a therapist, man.

>>18478191
You made yourself seem like a giant pussy because you encouraged them to cuck you, then they cucked you because you made yourself seem like a giant pussy. It's a vicious cycle.

>>18478321

Well, my guy playfully suggested threesomes about a year ago. I haven't acted on it. Don't think I will. However, I think at some point I'm probably going to end things with him. It's not that anything is wrong, but there's some things I can't move past. One of those is the thought that I can't please him the way he wants to be pleased.

>>18478347
What's your point?

>>18478191
You got what you wanted, which is being cucked. If you only did it as a shit test it would be stupid enough, but you actually went through it, which clearly shows that you enjoy mmf's.

You like being cucked. You should have married one of them for giving what you want

>>18476509
I will never understand how presumably adult men in relationships on 4chan can be so astronomically fucking stupid and insecure.

>>18478354

My point is that playful banter affects relationships one way or the other.

Females want to feel like they can fulfill their guy, but they also have their own "standards", so to say. Either the female will decide that they can please their guy, or they will feel like they can't please their guy, by weighing those two things.

Even if the guy drops a particular fantasy. I don't think my guy has mentioned a threesome since I told him it's not happened and I didn't like hearing about it almost nine months ago. However, it still bothers me on some level -- I feel like we aren't compatible. I think that applies both to this cuck/MMF thing and the anal thing.

If you're willing to do and enjoy a MMF or anal, I'm not sure what the issue is that the girl is willing to do it too -- and I doubt she'd feel good feeling like she's not pleasing you. That'd just fester.

>>18478359
I said in my first post it was a test and they all failed. What kind of test is it if they don't follow through. Only one kinda wobbled when the time came and covered her face with a pillow but once she got the first dick she went nuts like all of them. The only pleasure I got out of it was the relief of knowing this one wouldn't fool me later and seeing their face when I ended the relationship. It never ceases to amaze me they actually believed I would be ok with them fucking other men. Who raises these girls anyway? Are there none that can show just a little restraint? My search continues and dating a new one, nothing serious yet but we'll see.

>>18478442
> Are there none that can show just a little restraint?
You could try not bringing it up in the first place. But, you can't, because you're a serial cuck who gets off on feeling morally superior to the girls who just try to keep you happy.

>>18478471
You know what would make me very happy? I mean something to restore my faith in love and romance. For one to tell me to fuck off and walk away. Hasn't happened.

>>18478501
You can only be happy by destroying some girl's trust. >>18478321 was right: get a therapist.

>>18478501

that girl is too good for you anyway ... playing games like a little bitch, fuck off

>>18478516
>destroying some girl's trust.
Huh? They did what they truly wanted to do. What about they destroyed my faith in them? Oh, I forgot, women cannot be responsible for their choices.

>>18476804
that does explain why OP is no longer attracted to the female

>>18476509
Congrats, you've entered into the "My gf is just another hole to fill" part of your relationship! Aint it grand? To find out that your girl is just another typical bitch? I remember mine. She let me fuck her many times in public and eventually I just saw her as a cum dump. Funny how attraction dies sometimes.

>>18478551
>Lure girls into thinking you want them to cuck you
>"Don't worry, I'm ok with it!"
>They do it
>JOKES ON HER, I DIDN'T ACTUALLY WANT TO GET KEKED!

You are too retarded for words.

>>18476509
you have a madonna/whore complex the only way to fix it is therapy to understand why you see your gf in that way.

my SO stopped fucking me the moment I got pregnant because he could only see me as a mother afterwards rather than something to be sexual with. It's a very real thing that men struggle with.

>>18477600
you are deluding yourself if you think any sexual woman does not want a MMF. Women love attention just like men do. What are you going to tell me next, that you would turn down a MFF?

>>18477606
too late, he's been bantze>>18477607
d out of existence

>>18478921
He missed out on the preggers sex? Jeeesus, what a bad life choice. No condom/birth control needed, come inside every time, and best of all you can literally see how fertile she is: fucking a pregnant woman is a major turn-on

>>18479021
I know I was super disappointed that he would not have sex with me because of the no birth-control thing! I cannot take hormonal birth control, the IUD falls out of me, and he hates condoms so it would of been amazing to have no-risk sex for 9 months but nope.

>>18477266
I have this. I think most men have this to a certain degree. Even the top 5-10% of men who were banging sluts all their life will rather lower their standards to find a loyal gf.

>>18478926
On the contrary. I prove they all want a MMF though they may pretend otherwise and why they leap at the chance even in a relationship.

Already had a MFF.

>>18479124
of course they pretend otherwise because being sexually active and having sexual desire as a woman is incredibly looked down upon. I would say that most women want to be gangbanged just like most men want to fuck a harem of women. what point are you trying to make, that humans are sexual beings?

>>18478501
You managed to trigger a lot of sluts but I agree with you anon. One day you will find a girl who isn't a complete slut

>>18477612
Can't believe I'm the first one to say this but...
Fake and cuck.

>>18477600
Fake and cuck

>>18476509
I love how this became more about some guy being a cuck (and probably fake) that the OP's problem

>>18479152
i love how you samefagged the entire thread with falsely calling the guy a cuck. he would be a cuck for letting another guy fuck her gf. banging a chick you have no attachment to with a guy wont make you a cuck

>>18479166
must be the cuck speaking

>>18479190
dropping some skank after fucking her with another guy is more alpha than cuck

>>18479194
Dating women that you prejudicially regard as skanks isn't alpha: it's self-defeating. I'd call it misogynist, because that's frankly what it is according to the Greek roots of the word, but that term's been so freighted with SJW bullshit that it has lost its edge. Dating a woman whom you suspect ab initio to be a "skank" is almost more misanthropic than misogynist anyway, since you clearly hate yourself to keep repeating the same pattern of behavior over and over.
Nothing you describe is alpha. The alpha is not suspicious but confident in his strength: his partner is faithful and will build a better future together with him, because they both will this and impose their will on the universe.

>>18479194
cuck back at it with the self-acceptance kek

>>18479284
sound like a true skank

>>18479284
a true alpha knows respect, it goes beyond the sex of the person, a fucking pussy has double standards and defines a woman who agrees to a premeditated sexual encounter as a skank

>>18479324
why is it so easy to locate the cuck? lol

>>18479332
you seem to be obsessed with this cuck thing

>>18479326
yeah sure so a self-respecting man doesnt care if his girlfriend is a slut. enough mental gymnastics for today lads

>>18479194
if you weren in a sexual relationship where 66% of the people were male, and you were one of them, you are more gay than hetero :p

>>18479336
yeah, enough mental gymnastics, you can go back to being a full time cuck lol

>>18479343
haha :D

>>18476509
You are doomed to marry a prude and suffer vanilla sex for the rest of your worthless life.

>>18479107
>Even the top 5-10% of men who were banging sluts all their life will rather lower their standards to find a loyal gf.
That's not the same. Of course you want your future wife to be pure but as sson as she's your wife you can make her your personal whore while she can be the perfect wife for the eyes of the world. Isn't that a much healthier and happier life? Banging the life out of your cute little housewife knowing that nobody else can do to her what you can do?

Is your wife a slut if she gives herself and her body fully to you and your wishes? I would rather say she has given you the ultimate gift of (best case) virginity why bonding herself and the most fertile years of her life to your full enjoyment.

>>18479145
I'm a woman, so no cuck here. My man likes the _idea_ of being able to make me do stuff without actually pushing me, just through my will of showing him my devotion so it wouldn't be that much out of character to test me (although obviously not going through with it - that's were that anon seems to have evolved a fetish).